annsGG
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Hi all
I have just started to ride again after many years and recently took 2 hard falls which knocked my confidence somewhat.
My (very experienced) friend is riding him for me at the moment to bring him back into work whilst I am building my confidence and taking refresher lessons, I am not being a 'wus' but fast approaching my three score and ten and suffer with osteoperosis so I have to be a bit careful about taking another hard knock
Murphy is a 14.2h 7yo cob (although the passport says Shire-x-Irish draft???) and is very, very lazy, in actual fact when I bought him, the last owner was fed up with not being able to make him do anything at all.
Recently he has started reversing into hedges, ditches and other immovable objects , he takes a few paces forward then loads backwards, we have tried turning him but he throws his head about, if I go for the sitting-still-until-he-gets-bored approach he starts to paw at the ground and starts the viscious circle again. If I am lucky enough to get him to turn he just backs up more. Also very relutantly tried someone elses suggestion to tap him with a crop but this just seemed to put up another barrier. When he does go forward he's perfect but he doesn't seem to be able to concentrate for more than a minute or so, he's not very confident in traffic but does this even when there's no traffic around, the scariest recent event was he backed right into a cyclist who turned a very funny colour at the sight of Murphey's butt fast approaching
The first horse I bought threw me off, the second is a doll but suffers from really bad head-shaking and I am fast loosing faith and starting to think that someone is trying to get me to give up but I have just started to enjoy it again and really don't want to give up (riding school horse had a little buck this week and I stayed on so confidence is definately on the up)
Any suggestions would be very much appreciated, thanks
Ann
I have just started to ride again after many years and recently took 2 hard falls which knocked my confidence somewhat.
My (very experienced) friend is riding him for me at the moment to bring him back into work whilst I am building my confidence and taking refresher lessons, I am not being a 'wus' but fast approaching my three score and ten and suffer with osteoperosis so I have to be a bit careful about taking another hard knock
Murphy is a 14.2h 7yo cob (although the passport says Shire-x-Irish draft???) and is very, very lazy, in actual fact when I bought him, the last owner was fed up with not being able to make him do anything at all.
Recently he has started reversing into hedges, ditches and other immovable objects , he takes a few paces forward then loads backwards, we have tried turning him but he throws his head about, if I go for the sitting-still-until-he-gets-bored approach he starts to paw at the ground and starts the viscious circle again. If I am lucky enough to get him to turn he just backs up more. Also very relutantly tried someone elses suggestion to tap him with a crop but this just seemed to put up another barrier. When he does go forward he's perfect but he doesn't seem to be able to concentrate for more than a minute or so, he's not very confident in traffic but does this even when there's no traffic around, the scariest recent event was he backed right into a cyclist who turned a very funny colour at the sight of Murphey's butt fast approaching
The first horse I bought threw me off, the second is a doll but suffers from really bad head-shaking and I am fast loosing faith and starting to think that someone is trying to get me to give up but I have just started to enjoy it again and really don't want to give up (riding school horse had a little buck this week and I stayed on so confidence is definately on the up)
Any suggestions would be very much appreciated, thanks
Ann