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Looking for some wisdom and advice please ? My horse is easy when he’s calm and settled (which is most of the time) but when he’s worried, if the pressure increases (eg something scary or too firm handling) he looses it on the ground and can’t calm down. We started TRT groundwork and that helps but we aren’t that far into it yet
We’ve recently moved yards, he’s happy and settled in his new field but the yard and school are right next to a working farm. I hadn’t realised how noisy or busy this would be, esp at this time of year (I’m such an idiot!). Took him to the yard area last night (for the first time) and it was so noisy and busy- tractors, farm machines everywhere (questioning why I chose this yard!). He started getting tense and worried, I kept calm, reassured him and fed him on the yard then went back to the field. We had a few kite moments but he didn’t fully lose his head (he kept listening to me and moving forwards).
I’m thinking of feeding him on the yard every day, keeping it positive and short and sweet. Will this settle him do you think (little and often)? Or could more exposure to the scary things make him worse (I know sometimes the more he sees scary things the more he works himself up)? We’ve been at a yard in the past where he was terrified of sheep and never got used to them, despite walking past them for months and months. I’ve got support in real life should I need it, because he can be a challenge.
I really want to crack on with him but with the yard being scary I feel like I need to get him used to it first before I can work him. However being in work will also expend some energy. He’s also got a good memory and if something upsets him, he’ll always hold a grudge!
Anyway, any ideas? Advice, wisdom? Things I could try? thanks
We’ve recently moved yards, he’s happy and settled in his new field but the yard and school are right next to a working farm. I hadn’t realised how noisy or busy this would be, esp at this time of year (I’m such an idiot!). Took him to the yard area last night (for the first time) and it was so noisy and busy- tractors, farm machines everywhere (questioning why I chose this yard!). He started getting tense and worried, I kept calm, reassured him and fed him on the yard then went back to the field. We had a few kite moments but he didn’t fully lose his head (he kept listening to me and moving forwards).
I’m thinking of feeding him on the yard every day, keeping it positive and short and sweet. Will this settle him do you think (little and often)? Or could more exposure to the scary things make him worse (I know sometimes the more he sees scary things the more he works himself up)? We’ve been at a yard in the past where he was terrified of sheep and never got used to them, despite walking past them for months and months. I’ve got support in real life should I need it, because he can be a challenge.
I really want to crack on with him but with the yard being scary I feel like I need to get him used to it first before I can work him. However being in work will also expend some energy. He’s also got a good memory and if something upsets him, he’ll always hold a grudge!
Anyway, any ideas? Advice, wisdom? Things I could try? thanks