showqa
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I am soooooo fed up, I can't tell you.
OK, I have a fabulous horse - rising 7 - and we have a great relationship. EXCEPT when it comes to loading. We've been a few places in a trailer, and he was a swine to get on it - 50 minutes minimum. No rearing, running backwards or anything like that - just plants front feet on the ramp and says "Nope - ain't going any further". So, as he's a biggish horse, I thought I'd invest in a small box which is split into two partitions as in a trailer. It's spacious, light, ramp is not too steep and very solid - great box. But guess what - he STILL will not easily go onto it. First time, one hour, second time 2 hours, third time I gave up altogether as I was freezing cold and just could not stand it for a moment longer.
Once he's on he's super chilled, he stands stock still when moving and comes off calmly without a bead of sweat. My TB mare goes on with him, on and off like a dream without a second's hesitation - almost loads herself.
What I want to know is, is this fear or him treating me like an idiot? If he's treating me like an idiot, how do I approach it? I'm not happy with aggression (whacking him with sticks, broomsticks and the like), although enticing him with food doesn't work. I've had him since he was 5 when he came from Spain, and admittedly he hasn't travelled a lot since he came here. I suppose about ten times in all. Your help is much needed!!!
OK, I have a fabulous horse - rising 7 - and we have a great relationship. EXCEPT when it comes to loading. We've been a few places in a trailer, and he was a swine to get on it - 50 minutes minimum. No rearing, running backwards or anything like that - just plants front feet on the ramp and says "Nope - ain't going any further". So, as he's a biggish horse, I thought I'd invest in a small box which is split into two partitions as in a trailer. It's spacious, light, ramp is not too steep and very solid - great box. But guess what - he STILL will not easily go onto it. First time, one hour, second time 2 hours, third time I gave up altogether as I was freezing cold and just could not stand it for a moment longer.
Once he's on he's super chilled, he stands stock still when moving and comes off calmly without a bead of sweat. My TB mare goes on with him, on and off like a dream without a second's hesitation - almost loads herself.
What I want to know is, is this fear or him treating me like an idiot? If he's treating me like an idiot, how do I approach it? I'm not happy with aggression (whacking him with sticks, broomsticks and the like), although enticing him with food doesn't work. I've had him since he was 5 when he came from Spain, and admittedly he hasn't travelled a lot since he came here. I suppose about ten times in all. Your help is much needed!!!