Illusion100
Well-Known Member
A few threads recently have got me thinking......(scary thought, I know
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How do you view your relationship between horses and injuries they've caused you? How does it affect your relationship/confidence with horses in general?
Over the years horse related injuries have broken many of my bones (including neck, lumbar and hips), dislocated my joints, incurred major surgery, given me nasty concussions and even a coma resulting in an element of brain damage (affecting memory and co-ordination).
It hasn't put me off, perhaps that coma caused a bit more damage than I thought but I just see general and potentially very serious injury as part of working with horses.
Obviously I aim to be as safe as possible and treat horses with the respect of the damage they could cause me without much effort on their behalf but, yeah, I still throw risk in there with working with them, going in with the knowledge I could end up getting battered.
I don't tend to hold any injury a horse has given me against them, ***** happens. Luckily in the last 5 yrs the worst injury I've had was broken hip but I don't hold it against my horse and it never put me off wanting to continue on with him.
I fully appreciate that there are many, many factors that can influence how much risk any individual is prepared to take and I'm not questioning that nor belittling it, please don't mistake that. For example, I don't have children so I do not have that awful fear of not being able to care for them.
I am genuinely wondering if it is an individuals personality/temperament or something else? Why do some of us keep going back for more? Is it a good or bad (stupid?) thing?
Don't get me wrong, if I got bitten by a Spider I would cry like a baby and freak out even more than I already do when I encountered another one. My OH was bitten by a spider, it really hurt him, he still picks them up and puts them outside without battering an eyelid but he is highly unconfident around horses although they have never caused him harm.
Sometimes I wonder if any of us horsey people are wired up right? Oh look, that beast could squash, flatten, kick, bite, trample or kill me.......let's go ride it!
How do you view your relationship between horses and injuries they've caused you? How does it affect your relationship/confidence with horses in general?
Over the years horse related injuries have broken many of my bones (including neck, lumbar and hips), dislocated my joints, incurred major surgery, given me nasty concussions and even a coma resulting in an element of brain damage (affecting memory and co-ordination).
It hasn't put me off, perhaps that coma caused a bit more damage than I thought but I just see general and potentially very serious injury as part of working with horses.
Obviously I aim to be as safe as possible and treat horses with the respect of the damage they could cause me without much effort on their behalf but, yeah, I still throw risk in there with working with them, going in with the knowledge I could end up getting battered.
I don't tend to hold any injury a horse has given me against them, ***** happens. Luckily in the last 5 yrs the worst injury I've had was broken hip but I don't hold it against my horse and it never put me off wanting to continue on with him.
I fully appreciate that there are many, many factors that can influence how much risk any individual is prepared to take and I'm not questioning that nor belittling it, please don't mistake that. For example, I don't have children so I do not have that awful fear of not being able to care for them.
I am genuinely wondering if it is an individuals personality/temperament or something else? Why do some of us keep going back for more? Is it a good or bad (stupid?) thing?
Don't get me wrong, if I got bitten by a Spider I would cry like a baby and freak out even more than I already do when I encountered another one. My OH was bitten by a spider, it really hurt him, he still picks them up and puts them outside without battering an eyelid but he is highly unconfident around horses although they have never caused him harm.
Sometimes I wonder if any of us horsey people are wired up right? Oh look, that beast could squash, flatten, kick, bite, trample or kill me.......let's go ride it!