cantharella
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I need your opinion.
I’ve been having private lessons at a local riding school for over 2 years, can walk/trot/canter, jump small cross poles. My school is rather large and busy, very focused on Pony Club and children parties etc., which is of course understandable. However, this means that most of the time I end up having my so-called private lessons in an arena filled with other riders. Take last week for example: in a 60x20 area one half was taken by a kids group lesson (8 riders), on the other half I had my 'private' lessons, sharing the space with 3 other private lessons, kids of different abilities, one was a 4 year old on lead rein. This is pretty much standard situation, I’ve had some better lessons, but I also had worse.
My question is - is this normal? Is it okay to cram so many riders into the school? I feel rather stressed riding in such chaos, can’t ride properly constantly looking out for other riders. I personally think it’s dangerous, but my instructors seem to think I should just suck it up. It is so chaotic, especially with a few private lessons sharing the space, because there’s no coordination between the riders, people change the rein constantly, you never know which direction they are going to go, instructors walking around without looking. Being an adult and on the biggest horse I feel I should be extra careful and watch out for the little ones, which means I end up not getting much out of my lesson. I used to be able to come during the week when it wasn’t so busy, but have started a new job recently and can only do weekends now. Recently my lessons feel like I wasted time & money. I really want to get better at riding but it’s hard to do any riding in a crowded area, with riders of different ages and abilities going in every direction. I know horse riding is a high risk sport, but I feel my riding school has a very lax approach to safety. I often wonder why the parents of those small children are not concerned seeing an adult on a 600kg animal cantering around their little ones.
What do you think - am I just being an entitled Karen? I’m not expecting a whole place to myself, but I feel a private lesson should be a bit better. I was thinking about finding a new school, but maybe it’s the same everywhere. I’m not too into horsey world, so don’t really know what’s normal.
I’ve been having private lessons at a local riding school for over 2 years, can walk/trot/canter, jump small cross poles. My school is rather large and busy, very focused on Pony Club and children parties etc., which is of course understandable. However, this means that most of the time I end up having my so-called private lessons in an arena filled with other riders. Take last week for example: in a 60x20 area one half was taken by a kids group lesson (8 riders), on the other half I had my 'private' lessons, sharing the space with 3 other private lessons, kids of different abilities, one was a 4 year old on lead rein. This is pretty much standard situation, I’ve had some better lessons, but I also had worse.
My question is - is this normal? Is it okay to cram so many riders into the school? I feel rather stressed riding in such chaos, can’t ride properly constantly looking out for other riders. I personally think it’s dangerous, but my instructors seem to think I should just suck it up. It is so chaotic, especially with a few private lessons sharing the space, because there’s no coordination between the riders, people change the rein constantly, you never know which direction they are going to go, instructors walking around without looking. Being an adult and on the biggest horse I feel I should be extra careful and watch out for the little ones, which means I end up not getting much out of my lesson. I used to be able to come during the week when it wasn’t so busy, but have started a new job recently and can only do weekends now. Recently my lessons feel like I wasted time & money. I really want to get better at riding but it’s hard to do any riding in a crowded area, with riders of different ages and abilities going in every direction. I know horse riding is a high risk sport, but I feel my riding school has a very lax approach to safety. I often wonder why the parents of those small children are not concerned seeing an adult on a 600kg animal cantering around their little ones.
What do you think - am I just being an entitled Karen? I’m not expecting a whole place to myself, but I feel a private lesson should be a bit better. I was thinking about finding a new school, but maybe it’s the same everywhere. I’m not too into horsey world, so don’t really know what’s normal.