I know I have asked for good vibes before, but...

benson21

benson21

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can I please have some more! You H&H 'ers have given me so much support, but I need just a little more!
On Friday, i have got to have a physiciatric (SP) assessment to see how I am coping without councelling after the accident. Its the final step before agreeing compensation for all we went through, and all of the money we have spent, and lost because of what happened.
I just dont want to do it. I dont want to discuss how I am feeling, I dont want to go back to that time, and drag it all up again, and think about it again, I am already having the vivid dreams again, and I dont want to be there.
I feel like a 4 year old when you were forced by your mum to go to the dentist, and saying 'I dont want to go, dont make me!!!
 
I can't imagine how awful it must be for you to think about what happened :( However, maybe you need to think 'past' it, by which I mean, that if you think about Friday as drawing a line underneath it and not having to go through anymore official 'process' where you have to discuss it. Maybe that will help you grit your teeth and get through it?

Don't really know what else to say.

(((Hugs))))
xx
 
Have no idea what your accident was, what or why you're going through what you are - just offer my distant good vibes. Try to see beyond Friday and have something great planned for the weekend. Good luck :p
 
As others said - think of it as the end of your trauma and the beginning of happier times. Sending good luck wishes and vibes :)
 
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