i was waiting for this one,small rant !!

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so for the ones of you that have read my previous post about my soon to be going back loan horse !!
i was bassically in not so many words told that its not the horse its me and had i ridden much etc !!!
well bleep bleep me !!
well my dad owns a livery yard and has done for nearll 50 years so i was born and bred here my mum and auntys had horses here so as i was growing up i rode them,then when mum thought the time was rite for my own she brought me one but then i also became the proud owner of a mini and a donkey and a sheep that use to follow my horse every where !!! lol
then obviously i got older had a child but still over the years look after other horses down here for liveries when they went away etc blah blah.
so son is nearly ten now and i decided to go for a loan horse now hes older !!
unfortunatly for me it didnt work out and he has to go back as hes not at all suitable for me or yard as he could potentually cause alot of damage to himself and also we have to think of the safety of our liveries,god im sorry for woffleing im just annoyed with the its not my horse etc making out i dont know what im doing !!!
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It's tit for tat really though!
This situation is gonna happen when you blame the owner for not being honest about him and so they are saying you are incapable, it's human nature to stick up for your corner.
People are always gonna throw something back if you throw mud too!
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You need to think about why and how it has turned out this way and learn from the experience. Turn it all into a positive by thinking what you can do to prevent it happening again.
 
i wouldnt mind this but as yet all i have said to her is that hes not suitable for me ,i actually havnt been brave enough to say to her that she lied so its not tit for tat theyve just gone on the defensive !!!
ive been as nice as possible to her considering,she is the one getting all silly !!
 
Well yes that was quite predictable really. The big question though is - has the horse gone yet??
 
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Echo that. Put it all behind you as a learning curve and move on. Don't let it weigh you down.
 
I agree with the others! All youve said is he is not suitable for you. Just stick to that and let him go back. TBH they are probably gutted that it hasnt worked out too.

And anyway...Mines still available
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