I wont him back!

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Its coming up to the anniversary of Marsden's death 3 years ago and all I can think about it how much I want him back!
Just one more ride, one more cuddle!
It so unfair, he was taken from me way b4 his time and I just want him back. I love Arch to bits and we are a great partnership, but nothing will ever replace what me and Marsden had, I miss him soooooo much.

Sorry for the pointless post, I just feel abit sad
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Know how you feel. It's my one year anniversay next week of losing my chap. He was my lifetime horse who taught me everything and was a huge part of my life. Even though my new chap is wonderful it still upsets me to look through photos at what we got up to. Don't know if it ever gets easier.
 
((((HUGS)))) Its a cliche but time is a great healer. If i think about it i still miss my old boy who died 5 years ago so much but then i wouldnt have had the opportunity to love the next horse in my life.
 
It's over 7 years now since Sov's was PTS & even now I can still cry over him. Sov might only have been 14 hands but I regularly used to clear over 5'6" jumps on him - he really was a legend and no horse will ever replace him.

Big hugs, I know how cr@p it is when you lose a horse that you have such a special relationship with x x x
 
Heya, sad post and I know how you feel.

My baby was only 5 years old when he died 7 years ago on Hogmanay. I'd only owned him 5 months and I still blame myself for him not being here now, even though the vet said there was nothing I could have done.

I miss him so much and I actually just cried trying to work out how long ago it was. I don't think it ever really gets better but having a new horse definitely helps you remember that life goes on and that them passing is giving another horse the chance to have owners as caring and dedicated (and mad!) as they did.

Just take time every now and again to be happy for all the fun you guys had and if you have photos then cover your walls in them - I only have one photo of McGinty as I filled a film with photos of him the Christmas before he died but the film was faulty and I lost them all.

RIP Marsden and McGinty and all the other horsey babies who are with them xx
 
OMG we have just sold a Marsden......its horrible when they are gone, I still miss a tiny pony my daughter had, he has been gone 2 years this week and still feels horrible.

Hugs x
 
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I wish I could say it gets better but it takes such a long time. Especially if it's a distressing end.

I feel bad at home as I have about a dozen pics of Cass around the house, but none yet of Ronnie. And she's been gone 5 years 6 months (and 2 days).

Try to remember the good times with Marsden rather than what happened, but do think about all the good times with Archie too, as he's here now and wanting to be loved! (if horses can want to be loved? - maybe he just wants to be fed...)

At least you were lucky enough to have known him xxxx
 
You will never, ever get over his death, especially if it was as horrific as you say, but you will come to terms with it, eventually. My Mickey died in front of me nearly eight years ago now, at just ten years old. Every time we get to the 21st May, I think of him, especially when I see the peonies out in flower - a dear friend of ours brought them to place in his stable when he died. Time is the only healer; dont ever imagine you will replace him, but I promise, you will move on. just think of the wonderful times you once shared.
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(((Hugs))))
this post has made me cry
It is 18 months since i lost my darling G, and i still miss him dreadfully.
I have had Max for 9 months, and love him dearly. He will never repalce "G" but has filled a big part of the hole he left when he went.
As the others have said..... think of the times you shared together, and the fun you had. It's all you can do, think about him and smile
He was lucky to have had you in his life, and you were lucky to have shared his.
Concentrate on putting a your love into your new lad, and enjoy every minute you have together
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I can only image how you feel, as this post has brought me to tears, and thats a rarity ..... I really dread the day my old boy goes and I know I will never get over it
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My son died at age 22, 17 years ago. I feel just as raw, but you do learn to live with it. I also lost my border collie bitch some 3 1/2 years ago, I have a beautiful yellow labrador bitch now who I adore, but the collie was my dog of a lifetime. It's harder some days than others. One just has to deal with things day by day. I really feel for you and wish you the best.
 
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