Patches
Well-Known Member
On the 14th June I sent a horse away for backing. The horse had been long reined almost daily for 7 weeks, I'd leant over the saddle, patted the horse about all over and wiggled weight in stirrups. The ONLY thing I never took the plunge to do myself was physically sit myself up there. Too chicken.
At the end of week one I was told the horse had been sat on, by the end of week two there had been a setback as horse had shot off forwards when asked to move on, so things had gone back to just long reining for a week.
After this all I tended to get out of the yard was that she was "going well", "being a good girl" etc. By week four I was told she was going well in walk and trot and I started asking if I could see her being worked. Times were arranged and then I was cancelled etc.
By the end of the 6th week I was much more insistent as I was being told that she was still being worked under saddle on the lunge, yet was being a doddle...so why no further along?
I arranged to go with my friend to see her and was pleased not to be cancelled. However, when we turned up the yard acted like I'd turned up unannounced, were very sharp with me and I was told the rider wouldn't be getting on her that day as they had no help on the ground (and refused our offers to assist) but they would lunge her if I was desperate to see her being worked. I declined as I had seen her on the long reins for 7 weeks before I sent her away and said I was disappointed. They told me to go back in a week or so as the rider was busy with eventing and offered to give me two weeks free breaking livery (I'd been paying weekly in advance, as per the arrangement) to make up for her having some time off.
To cut a long story short, a few days I contacted the yard and asked if Tilly not being any further along was due to anything she was doing or their lack of time? I was told the latter so I picked her up. When I went to collect her she was in a stable, the tack over the stable door next to her....the yard was empty.
This was the 8th August. Fast forward three weeks and a new lad has been breaking her, with my help at home. She now walks, trots, canters, hacks and pops a fence. She hasn't been difficult to back at all...very genuine and calm...although she was initially somewhat shocked by having any leg aids which may/may not suggest she did less than the breaking yard claimed they'd done with her.
Breaking yards only offer to me for the lack of service was to do her for free after the eventing season, which I declined. No offer of a refund as "she has been backed, but did have time off due to lack of time after the groom left". However I never saw her sat on at all by them in the seven weeks she was there.
I was considering the Small Claims Court but I have no receipts for livery and no contract...therefore no proof that he was offering me the service I paid for.
I am disappointed for the mare really. She came back a little nervous of being bridled (but we're over that now) and is scared of my husband...something she wasn't before she left. He can no longer catch or approach her.
Not sure why I'm posting this....but it still bugs me that he appears to have gotten away with it.
At the end of week one I was told the horse had been sat on, by the end of week two there had been a setback as horse had shot off forwards when asked to move on, so things had gone back to just long reining for a week.
After this all I tended to get out of the yard was that she was "going well", "being a good girl" etc. By week four I was told she was going well in walk and trot and I started asking if I could see her being worked. Times were arranged and then I was cancelled etc.
By the end of the 6th week I was much more insistent as I was being told that she was still being worked under saddle on the lunge, yet was being a doddle...so why no further along?
I arranged to go with my friend to see her and was pleased not to be cancelled. However, when we turned up the yard acted like I'd turned up unannounced, were very sharp with me and I was told the rider wouldn't be getting on her that day as they had no help on the ground (and refused our offers to assist) but they would lunge her if I was desperate to see her being worked. I declined as I had seen her on the long reins for 7 weeks before I sent her away and said I was disappointed. They told me to go back in a week or so as the rider was busy with eventing and offered to give me two weeks free breaking livery (I'd been paying weekly in advance, as per the arrangement) to make up for her having some time off.
To cut a long story short, a few days I contacted the yard and asked if Tilly not being any further along was due to anything she was doing or their lack of time? I was told the latter so I picked her up. When I went to collect her she was in a stable, the tack over the stable door next to her....the yard was empty.
This was the 8th August. Fast forward three weeks and a new lad has been breaking her, with my help at home. She now walks, trots, canters, hacks and pops a fence. She hasn't been difficult to back at all...very genuine and calm...although she was initially somewhat shocked by having any leg aids which may/may not suggest she did less than the breaking yard claimed they'd done with her.
Breaking yards only offer to me for the lack of service was to do her for free after the eventing season, which I declined. No offer of a refund as "she has been backed, but did have time off due to lack of time after the groom left". However I never saw her sat on at all by them in the seven weeks she was there.
I was considering the Small Claims Court but I have no receipts for livery and no contract...therefore no proof that he was offering me the service I paid for.
I am disappointed for the mare really. She came back a little nervous of being bridled (but we're over that now) and is scared of my husband...something she wasn't before she left. He can no longer catch or approach her.
Not sure why I'm posting this....but it still bugs me that he appears to have gotten away with it.