Cobland
Well-Known Member
At the yard we are at, i totally love it, there are 2 stable blocks and we rent one block ourselves for £50 a week (10 stables), there is a smaller stable block that is used for YO's daughters horse, his gf's horse and then one livery that keeps 2 shetties.
We share the arena but its generally ours from 2pm onwards. We have our own fields but we all decided to share to help keep grass for the winter months.
About 2 months back the one livery there brought up YO's quad from YO's drive, we have no idea why. He started messing around with it, we were sitting in our jeep munching our lunch. OH door was open and he started reversing the quad towards his door so hubby closed the door to stop him hitting it. Guy on the quad then hit the throttle and hit the side of our jeep, leaving a huge dent in the rear door. Cost us £300 to repair and we sent the guy the bill. Started receiving nasty texts from him. He said that it was OH's fault for closing his door!
We would come up to the yard and if he was there he would start making snide comments to us, one was pure nasty saying "Some day that b***h is going to come up and find her horses dead".
Tried to ignore him but got to the stage were OH said that i wasnt to go to the yard without him as he was scared that he would start on me. We all share a large tack room, it is locked with a key code padlock.
Told YO about this guy and he said that he would have a word with him. As the guy on livery has nothing in the tack room YO said to change the code for the tack room as he had threatened to lift some of my tack as he left his PS2 in our house and we are refusing to give it back until he pays up, also he has a TV that belongs to us.
Tonight the guy arrives, i was in YO's house as he offered to make us dinner. He calls YO to ask the code for the tack room as he claims he has wormers in there. YO let him in to the tack room but couldnt find the wormers, he automatically blamed me, saying i used his wormers on my horses the day before. Its a lie, i did worm my horses but it was my own which are the same brand as his. Took YO up and showed him my supply of wormers. it was ME that bought the wormers for his horses as they needed done so bought my own some at the same time!!! So they were the same brand etc.
Its now getting upsetting going up, if hes around hes just so nasty. YO said if hes around then he will come up if he starts on me. Hes getting annoyed with this guy and has told him that if he doesnt stop then hes out.
His shetties are only seen to 1-2 times a week, they are getting skinny and i used to throw my food in with them as i felt sorry for them. I used to be really good to this guy, making him his dinner etc but since asking the money off him hes being a right d**k. For the last month they havent left the stable once!
He told YO tonight that hes looking for a new place to move his horses to, YO said that he wouldnt stop him. I had said to YO a week back that i had enough and i was going to start looking for a new yard although im not wanting to. He said he wouldnt stop me moving but he doesnt want us to go and hoped we would stay on.
Im very good friends with them, he would come to ours with his daughter and gf, and weve all become close. This guy has been a prick to YO's daughter too. No one likes him anymore and his horses have been reported by YO's gf as they are so underweight. Im worried that he will blame me for reporting him.
Ive just had enough, hes abusive to his horses, punching them in the face etc. Im terrified that he is going to start punching my lot!!
We share the arena but its generally ours from 2pm onwards. We have our own fields but we all decided to share to help keep grass for the winter months.
About 2 months back the one livery there brought up YO's quad from YO's drive, we have no idea why. He started messing around with it, we were sitting in our jeep munching our lunch. OH door was open and he started reversing the quad towards his door so hubby closed the door to stop him hitting it. Guy on the quad then hit the throttle and hit the side of our jeep, leaving a huge dent in the rear door. Cost us £300 to repair and we sent the guy the bill. Started receiving nasty texts from him. He said that it was OH's fault for closing his door!
We would come up to the yard and if he was there he would start making snide comments to us, one was pure nasty saying "Some day that b***h is going to come up and find her horses dead".
Tried to ignore him but got to the stage were OH said that i wasnt to go to the yard without him as he was scared that he would start on me. We all share a large tack room, it is locked with a key code padlock.
Told YO about this guy and he said that he would have a word with him. As the guy on livery has nothing in the tack room YO said to change the code for the tack room as he had threatened to lift some of my tack as he left his PS2 in our house and we are refusing to give it back until he pays up, also he has a TV that belongs to us.
Tonight the guy arrives, i was in YO's house as he offered to make us dinner. He calls YO to ask the code for the tack room as he claims he has wormers in there. YO let him in to the tack room but couldnt find the wormers, he automatically blamed me, saying i used his wormers on my horses the day before. Its a lie, i did worm my horses but it was my own which are the same brand as his. Took YO up and showed him my supply of wormers. it was ME that bought the wormers for his horses as they needed done so bought my own some at the same time!!! So they were the same brand etc.
Its now getting upsetting going up, if hes around hes just so nasty. YO said if hes around then he will come up if he starts on me. Hes getting annoyed with this guy and has told him that if he doesnt stop then hes out.
His shetties are only seen to 1-2 times a week, they are getting skinny and i used to throw my food in with them as i felt sorry for them. I used to be really good to this guy, making him his dinner etc but since asking the money off him hes being a right d**k. For the last month they havent left the stable once!
He told YO tonight that hes looking for a new place to move his horses to, YO said that he wouldnt stop him. I had said to YO a week back that i had enough and i was going to start looking for a new yard although im not wanting to. He said he wouldnt stop me moving but he doesnt want us to go and hoped we would stay on.
Im very good friends with them, he would come to ours with his daughter and gf, and weve all become close. This guy has been a prick to YO's daughter too. No one likes him anymore and his horses have been reported by YO's gf as they are so underweight. Im worried that he will blame me for reporting him.
Ive just had enough, hes abusive to his horses, punching them in the face etc. Im terrified that he is going to start punching my lot!!