I am really in front of the moment when jumping with my horse. Especially if he puts in a short one in front of the jump. How can I stop this, are there any exercises that would help? Grid work?
the best piece of advice i was ever told regarding jumping and when to fold was:
Never go down to the horse
Always let the horse come up to you
helped me out when doing gridwork as i used to do the same, i used to say it to myself on the approach so id remember to wait for the horse, now i dont even have to think about it