Marmi452
Well-Known Member
I moved to a livery yard at end of October as wanted to do DIY (previous yard going to part) and have a yard with an arena so my daughter could continue her riding education without having to go on the road. It is a lovely yard on the whole and my neighbours are very welcoming and will help with anything, but this is where the issue lies. we share a field I have 3 horses and they have 2 and as I work full time in the week and my partner works shifts we have an arrangement that we rotate turn in and out. Now turn out is going fine, turn in is another matter as they bring there horses in with just a lead rope if that they sometimes allow the horses to walk back to their stables in like cattle. Now I have a 25 yr old who just goes with the flow, a 4 year old welsh B who is due to be broken in April who is highly strung and needs boundaries and for my xmas present my OH brought me a beautiful cob who at 6 has spent a lot of time with a dealer so is getting used to routine and love. I was lucky to be off at Christmas and as I was turning in and out all my ponies had manners and would be very responsive to commands. I am now back at work and they are like a bunch of teenagers barging at the gate to be first out and in the stable... How do I ask politely that we go back to head collars and walking them by hand back to the stable without offending them and losing the relationship we have built up(plus I do need a little help) but I can not cope with uncontrollable ponies as there are kids on the yard(including mine) and worry about someone getting hurt. Any help or advice would be appreciated but I am happy at the yard and moving fields is not an option at the minute but would like them to understand that how they bring in ponies is not my way.... Thanks and sorry if I have rambled on a bit