It was for the best...

only_me

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Our border terrier, Murphy, was put to sleep this morning. He was 10, and pretty deaf. He had a habit of lying sleeping on the Tarmac and unfortunately last night dad didn't see him when driving up and hit him on the head with car.

I'm not squeamish, and am fine with gore - but even I was shocked as whatever had happened Murphys eye had literally popped out and was almost "dangling" about 3cm out of socket.

But he was walking around, so I had hoped that it was just the eye damage and maybe a cracked orbit. Took him to vets, who were fab and got him on fluids. Unfortunately the vets rang this am to say he had started having multiple fits and temperature was rising and falling rapidly, and the outlook wasn't good.

So we made the decision to put him to sleep - even if he had treatment he would have been deaf, blind in one eye, a skin condition, and he is already known for snapping at strange cars so most likely would have ended up being killed at a later stage as I suspect behavior would have got worse.

But at least he is in no pain now, just so sad to see him go :( it was an easy decision to make, for his sake, but very hard to cope with, he was a lovely boy & a happy dog. And has been part of our lives for the last 10years :(

We did bring other dog into vets to see him but she didn't want to see him when he was alive and she just sniffed him when brought him home. How do I know if she is grieving for him?
 
How awful for you all.
Grieving: when we lost one of our two JRTs it was more obvious when the surviving one seemed to stop grieving and cheer up. Is your other dog behaving differently in any way?
 
In terms of grieving, dogs are extremely adaptable and as long as your other dog is still eating and enjoying exercise, play, training as usual then I wouldn't worry. I have never had a problem with dogs grieving for a lost friend - they just get on with life in most situations.
 
What an appalling situation, your dad must feel dreadful :( :( I remember seeing the same with a new born puppy which was delivered by a vet using a forceps delivery - the poor puppy was PTS ASAP, we never ever used the vet again (and he was president of the BVA around the same time!)

I have never known a dog grieve TBH, I have my old ones PTS when the right time comes and the others adapt very easily
 
Your poor dad, he must be in bits. What a shame this happened and it must have looked awful.

I too don't think dogs grieve. When Jake was PTS in the kitchen, we let his brother in to 'say goodbye' and he was just excited to see the vet!
 
Thanks all.
Wasn't sure about dogs, have only really seen horses & seen how it can help if they say goodbye as such.
She seems ok, so hopefully will be fine. Has plenty of doggy Friends as well.
 
I'm so sorry to read your post only_me, what a dreadful tragic accident to happen. I've had only one dog that went off its food, moped about for a few days grieving, when the other dog was PTS. Thankfully it didn't seem to last long but it was sad and disconcerting to watch.

I've sadly dealt with many road traffic collisions involving animals, (in my past life) Cat's seemed to end up the worse, often having eyeballs popped out as a result. (of the pressure I believe, if the head is involved) This must have been quite disturbing for you to see, especially as it was your own dog. I know I was, the first time I saw it, especially as it was both eyes.

Sorry your little guy didn't make it OP. Thinking of you.
 
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