Ferdinase514
Well-Known Member
With another livery! Long one...sorry.
Am the most non-confrontational person, but this woman has wound me and everyone else on yard up over several weeks and it all came to a head this eve. I shall list the things she has done to annoy me...
1) Shouted at me for arriving at yard 10 mins before leaving for a show, when I was helping her out, because she expected me to be there at 6am to muck her horses out. I had been at OH's book launch the night before and was hanging the next morning and was doing her a huge favour by turning up. Which she knew.
2) Been rude to very nice new liveries because they needed to turn their horses out in "her" field, even though her horses are stabled 24hrs a day and field is actually a sick paddock. She then proceeded to turn her horses out all day for 2 weeks so new liveries could not use field and to slag them off.
3) Told me to "shut up" when I gave one of teenagers on yard some advice she did not agree with.
4) watching me put out a whole course of SJ and tacking up before bring her horse out to lunge, mainly so she could be arkward and make snide comments about what I was doing.
There's more, but you get the idea.
She is really to rudest, most obnoxious, arkward, horrible person I have ever met.
This evening she marched up to me saying "why are you turnng Finn out in MY field?" (he can't eat the rich grass so needs restricted grazing and this has been agreed with Y.O). I told her why, that I didn't want to get involved in her quarrels and to go away.
Anyway conversation deteriorated as I got more angry and I finished up telling her all the things I was annoyed about and that I didn't want anything to do with her.
The yelling brought Y.O. and several other liveries out to intervene and this woman started having a go at Y.O!
I apologised to YO afterwards and thanked her for breaking it up as it was getting rather heated.
Don't understand how this woman can behave like this. I really hope they ask her to leave, as she has been causing trouble on yard for months and it all seems to be coming to a head at the mo.
Well done for getting to the end!
Am the most non-confrontational person, but this woman has wound me and everyone else on yard up over several weeks and it all came to a head this eve. I shall list the things she has done to annoy me...
1) Shouted at me for arriving at yard 10 mins before leaving for a show, when I was helping her out, because she expected me to be there at 6am to muck her horses out. I had been at OH's book launch the night before and was hanging the next morning and was doing her a huge favour by turning up. Which she knew.
2) Been rude to very nice new liveries because they needed to turn their horses out in "her" field, even though her horses are stabled 24hrs a day and field is actually a sick paddock. She then proceeded to turn her horses out all day for 2 weeks so new liveries could not use field and to slag them off.
3) Told me to "shut up" when I gave one of teenagers on yard some advice she did not agree with.
4) watching me put out a whole course of SJ and tacking up before bring her horse out to lunge, mainly so she could be arkward and make snide comments about what I was doing.
There's more, but you get the idea.
She is really to rudest, most obnoxious, arkward, horrible person I have ever met.
This evening she marched up to me saying "why are you turnng Finn out in MY field?" (he can't eat the rich grass so needs restricted grazing and this has been agreed with Y.O). I told her why, that I didn't want to get involved in her quarrels and to go away.
Anyway conversation deteriorated as I got more angry and I finished up telling her all the things I was annoyed about and that I didn't want anything to do with her.
The yelling brought Y.O. and several other liveries out to intervene and this woman started having a go at Y.O!
I apologised to YO afterwards and thanked her for breaking it up as it was getting rather heated.
Don't understand how this woman can behave like this. I really hope they ask her to leave, as she has been causing trouble on yard for months and it all seems to be coming to a head at the mo.
Well done for getting to the end!