miamibear
Well-Known Member
Following on from the "how old were you when you got your first horse/pony" post.
Both me and my friend have worked at riding schools for rides since we were able, with our parents not being able to afford ponies for us.
I only got my own horse when i was 19 and could support it off my own salary.
I know this may be a bit controvertial(sp) and i mean no offence but do you think you appreciate what you have more if you have worked all your life to get your own and not been handed it by your parents?
A lot of the kids i knew that got given ponies by their parents soon went off them at age 14 ish when they discovered boys!
I feel having it the way i have had it - although i felt like i missed out on a lot i have learnt the value of what i have and never go out and buy the best makes or most expensive things because i have never had the money - even though i do now.
From the other side did those of you who got given ponies when you were younger find it hard to cope when you had to pay for it yourself.
Are there still people out there whos parents pay for the horses even though they are adults?
Just wondered what peoples views are and thought a discussion wouldnt go a miss.
By the way when i have kids i fully intend to provide said pony to them (even if i have to force them
) because i dont want them to miss out.
Please discuss.
BTW i dont resent my parents for this!! LOL
Both me and my friend have worked at riding schools for rides since we were able, with our parents not being able to afford ponies for us.
I only got my own horse when i was 19 and could support it off my own salary.
I know this may be a bit controvertial(sp) and i mean no offence but do you think you appreciate what you have more if you have worked all your life to get your own and not been handed it by your parents?
A lot of the kids i knew that got given ponies by their parents soon went off them at age 14 ish when they discovered boys!
I feel having it the way i have had it - although i felt like i missed out on a lot i have learnt the value of what i have and never go out and buy the best makes or most expensive things because i have never had the money - even though i do now.
From the other side did those of you who got given ponies when you were younger find it hard to cope when you had to pay for it yourself.
Are there still people out there whos parents pay for the horses even though they are adults?
Just wondered what peoples views are and thought a discussion wouldnt go a miss.
By the way when i have kids i fully intend to provide said pony to them (even if i have to force them
Please discuss.
BTW i dont resent my parents for this!! LOL