Labrador goes into panic mode with certain people

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I've got a 5 year old Labrador called Molly, she's always had a bit of an anxious side (if we move furniture round at home she goes into her shell for a few days ) . I've had her since a puppy and can safely say she's not had a bad experiencethat i am aware of and 90% of the time is a happy pooch.

Occasionally she takes a dislike to some people, mainly men but sometimes women too. she comes to work with my and our other little Jack russell.
They both always go out and greet all of the customers that arrive on the yard , the customers really like it and it tends to set people at ease if they are a bit nervous/unsure of what they are looking for.

So, I can tell when she's going to have a panic as she goes very aloof , low tail , ears back on her head and quite a darty low position, for some reason rather than ignoring her the person usually decides to crouch down and talk to her to try and stoke her. She will then dart back and start barking and rush back to the office and hide under the desk.

Today she did it with my bosses father , who she sees every week and normally happy to see . This was full blown panic though, wouldn't come near the office at all and even reluctant to come back to me ! not running away , just would allow me to approach her. She took herself into the wood store next to the office to decompress and came back out after he had left.

He's a lovely man, the other dogs love him and none of the others react the way she does !

If this behaviour was all of the time i would be straight down to the vets , but like i say 90% of the time shes your typical happy wiggly Labrador.

I didn't know if it would be worth introducing a bit of a calmer to her feed may help to keep her level.

Just to add she also loves coming to work, it's a sawmill up in the woods and she has free range of the area.
 

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Some dogs just do be like this, as long as she has somewhere to escape to, I do not think I'd worry too much, however as you know the warning signs I would be advocating for her a bit more and telling people (politely) to back off, it doesn't matter how lovely they are, it could be a smell or the way the light is hitting them or their height, she can't talk, so she is telegraphing to people that she is not happy and it is up to us as owners to make them more comfortable. Personally, if I can see a dog doesn't like the cut of my jib, I back off and pretend there is no dog, rather than freaking them out or risking getting bitten (I got bitten anyway last week :p)

My own female HATES a friend of mine who is the nicest, most laid back man, he is very tall and went through a phase of having his hair very shaggy, so I don't know if that freaked her out, he is a very capable dog man, he has even offered her or thrown raw meat at her, she just takes it and darts back off again. I feel awful but I do have to tell him to clear off if I am competing or training with her or am at his club or vice versa.

I have tried every calmer known to man with dogs and none of them have ever worked and IME you won't change much with a five year old dog.
 

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Some dogs just do be like this, as long as she has somewhere to escape to, I do not think I'd worry too much, however as you know the warning signs I would be advocating for her a bit more and telling people (politely) to back off, it doesn't matter how lovely they are, it could be a smell or the way the light is hitting them or their height, she can't talk, so she is telegraphing to people that she is not happy and it is up to us as owners to make them more comfortable. Personally, if I can see a dog doesn't like the cut of my jib, I back off and pretend there is no dog, rather than freaking them out or risking getting bitten (I got bitten anyway last week :p)

My own female HATES a friend of mine who is the nicest, most laid back man, he is very tall and went through a phase of having his hair very shaggy, so I don't know if that freaked her out, he is a very capable dog man, he has even offered her or thrown raw meat at her, she just takes it and darts back off again. I feel awful but I do have to tell him to clear off if I am competing or training with her or am at his club or vice versa.

I have tried every calmer known to man with dogs and none of them have ever worked and IME you won't change much with a five year old dog.

Sorry I should have included I do intercept where i can (sometimes on the phone etc so will get her attention to come back to me but not always possible to tell the person to leave her be ) it's amazing how many people do not get their body language.

That's really interesting thank you , she's a funny one loyal as hell and soft as butter but has these feral moments.

She isn't the type to bite, shes always got space to remove herself so im not concerned about that.

It's as she's got older she is just very picky over whom she allows to grace her presence (dread to think what she will be like when an oldie 😂 )
 

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I’ve got a neurotic lab. Although she’s terrible with everyone. 🤦‍♀️. I don’t let mine approach people as if they don’t completely ignore her she will take fright and bay at them. If they blank her she will be much better.
Do you think it is better, mentally, for yours to approach everyone or might a less free range approach work?
 

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I’ve got a neurotic lab. Although she’s terrible with everyone. 🤦‍♀️. I don’t let mine approach people as if they don’t completely ignore her she will take fright and bay at them. If they blank her she will be much better.
Do you think it is better, mentally, for yours to approach everyone or might a less free range approach work?

Sounds very similar reaction to Molly.

It's a tough one as 9/10 people shes very happy to see will do the silly lab wiggle and bring them a stick.

But as that 1/10 isnt easy to predict than arguably no she shouldn't be able to.

Our office door is constantly open as it's a cladded shipping container so heats up over the summer months, so it would be hard to keep her in all the time unless i bring a crate in and pop her in that when people are around (which as im typing this i am thinking how sensible that is and why haven't i thought to do that already ) :oops:
 

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Our newest arrival is like this, and is under my desk at work.

I've stopped letting her go out to greet people, she's recalled back, ideally she doesn't get up from her bed, but at 9months is fidgety.

Does get rewarded for making the effort to look at them and not react.
 

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Our newest arrival is like this, and is under my desk at work.

I've stopped letting her go out to greet people, she's recalled back, ideally she doesn't get up from her bed, but at 9months is fidgety.

Does get rewarded for making the effort to look at them and not react.
Development fear period. In the right age bracket?
 

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Development fear period. In the right age bracket?

Possibly! She's always been a little quiet though.

We're not too concerned, I quite like a dog that's not all over new people.

The bed was terrifying last night though, luckily the Pup saved the other two!! Well done Moss :)

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