G8Gatsby
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I have a 4.5 year old Friesian cross I’ve had since a weanling. He’s always been very laid back and calm but now that we’re working on doing more riding and developming him, he’s just so incredibly lazy. I’ve already read a bunch of threads and articles on this and have tried everything including working with different trainers, but I just can’t get him sensitive and forward off my leg. He will work so hard to avoid working and of course it’s incredibly frustrating to ride. Does anyone have any different opinions? I mostly try the method of asking nicely and quietly first and when I get no response asking firmer ect until I get a response and then let off all pressure as a reward, but he immediately slows right back down, so it feels more like nagging and eventually he tunes me out. I did read in one of these forums actually though instead of asking harder until you get a response to just be annoying like tapping the whip (not smacking) until he responds. At first I thought this just sounds like nagging and he’d tune that out and become more dull.. but when I got to thinking about it it makes some sense.. when teaching anything from trailer loading to head down to trick training you use a gentle steady pressure or gentle tapping with a stick until you get annoying enough and they respond and you stop the pressure/tapping as reward. He responds well to that in other training avenues with basic things, would this be something good to try? Or is there something else? I’ve akso tried doing accordion type work to make him understand he has different gears in each gait other than slow, but I’ve not seen much improvement with that. Thanks.