sfward
Well-Known Member
Ok sorry this is so long - having read a couple of posts on livery today I'd love some advice on my place as I'm in a bit of a dilemma and feel I'm being taken for a ride (pls excuse the pun!).
I've only been there since February, I chose it as it was the only place I could find within 15 miles that offered any sort of full or part livery service. It's on a working farm, the YO is about 50 and does a lot of breeding and has lots of horses of her own. When I looked round I nearly had kittens at the price (£15 per day) but went with it as I liked the YO, the horses all looked happy, it had indoor school and XC course and all feed, hay, turnout and care was included. And quite frankly there weren't too many alternatives. Plus they had a girl (who I'll call G) working f/t who used to be at YRC and who it was said would lunge for me if I couldn't get up, clean tack etc. And my mum offered to help with the cost.
HOWEVER it soon became clear that G was far too overworked doing YO's horses to have much time to help out with mine, she did help me loose jump but never had time to lunge, not that I asked v often, and quite often forgot to bring the horse in for me when I'd asked let alone clean my tack. In the end she left and YO decided not to replace her, so is now looking after all her own horses as well as mine and the other livery's. My mare is happy but the yard and tack room are a mess and every small request I make (which aren't onerous) is met with 'if i have time'. This will probably sound petty but little things annoy me, like I arranged a jump lesson and YO pushed in in front of me with her horse without asking so I was hanging around for an hour and a half
and YO's husband power-washed every rug on the yard but left me to pay for mine to be professionally cleaned. Quite often I'd bring my horse in and the water troughs would all be empty so I'd have to go and fill them myself. I recently bought myself a Pessoa and when YO found out she asked if she could borrow it, I said yes and since then she's been using it constantly; I suggested maybe she could give me half the money for it and we could share it but none has materialised as yet! My horse spent quite a bit of time with no hard feed whatsoever as she hurt her leg and was in v light work, and even now she hardly gets anything, but I've had no reduction in livery fees to compensate.
Now I don't mind doing things myself, but it annoys me that I'm paying for a 5 star service and yet am made to feel like I'm a bit of an annoyance and bottom of the list of YO's priorities. I asked yesterday if she could bring my mare in for me in the afternoons so I didn't have to ride her full of grass (which I was always taught was bad for them) and was told she would if she had time and wasn't busy in the office! Now am I just being unreasonable or is that a bit rubbish for the price I'm paying!!! Basically I'm just paying for little bit of Cool Mix twice daily, turnout, hay and mucking out. My last place (which is now full and gone downhill by all accounts) was less money and the horse got ridden up to 5 times per week if you wanted!
So what should I do? It's awkward as I'm not a confrontational person and I actually like YO as a person, I don't want to make trouble. And the facilities are pretty good and the horse is happy there. BUT I'm struggling with the money and not that happy with the service. What can I do to make YO realise she needs to either provide a better service or lower her prices??! I really don't want to p*** her off as it'll create a really awkward atmosphere and I don't really have anywhere else to go at the moment (see signature!!!).
I've only been there since February, I chose it as it was the only place I could find within 15 miles that offered any sort of full or part livery service. It's on a working farm, the YO is about 50 and does a lot of breeding and has lots of horses of her own. When I looked round I nearly had kittens at the price (£15 per day) but went with it as I liked the YO, the horses all looked happy, it had indoor school and XC course and all feed, hay, turnout and care was included. And quite frankly there weren't too many alternatives. Plus they had a girl (who I'll call G) working f/t who used to be at YRC and who it was said would lunge for me if I couldn't get up, clean tack etc. And my mum offered to help with the cost.
HOWEVER it soon became clear that G was far too overworked doing YO's horses to have much time to help out with mine, she did help me loose jump but never had time to lunge, not that I asked v often, and quite often forgot to bring the horse in for me when I'd asked let alone clean my tack. In the end she left and YO decided not to replace her, so is now looking after all her own horses as well as mine and the other livery's. My mare is happy but the yard and tack room are a mess and every small request I make (which aren't onerous) is met with 'if i have time'. This will probably sound petty but little things annoy me, like I arranged a jump lesson and YO pushed in in front of me with her horse without asking so I was hanging around for an hour and a half
Now I don't mind doing things myself, but it annoys me that I'm paying for a 5 star service and yet am made to feel like I'm a bit of an annoyance and bottom of the list of YO's priorities. I asked yesterday if she could bring my mare in for me in the afternoons so I didn't have to ride her full of grass (which I was always taught was bad for them) and was told she would if she had time and wasn't busy in the office! Now am I just being unreasonable or is that a bit rubbish for the price I'm paying!!! Basically I'm just paying for little bit of Cool Mix twice daily, turnout, hay and mucking out. My last place (which is now full and gone downhill by all accounts) was less money and the horse got ridden up to 5 times per week if you wanted!
So what should I do? It's awkward as I'm not a confrontational person and I actually like YO as a person, I don't want to make trouble. And the facilities are pretty good and the horse is happy there. BUT I'm struggling with the money and not that happy with the service. What can I do to make YO realise she needs to either provide a better service or lower her prices??! I really don't want to p*** her off as it'll create a really awkward atmosphere and I don't really have anywhere else to go at the moment (see signature!!!).