Lauren1993
Well-Known Member
Hi all,
I’m trying to figure out where we belong best.
I’m 30 with 2 children, my oldest daughter is 4 & youngest is 10 months old.
We have a beautiful little Shetland mare my oldest rides & she is literally my 3rd child ! Hence why I’m mothering so much about what’s best for us all.
We started off at a large livery yard with around 30 horses. I’ve been here for years with my horses previously. We were there for just under a year & a half; 1 year with a previous pony & 4 months with our new pony.
I love the yard for me, when I was riding & have some friends to ride with etc. yard is good but our pony really suffered with allergies there. There were no other children for my daughter to play, ride & hang around with.
We decided to move & with the slim pickings at the time moved to another big yard 20 horses so a little smaller, there are other ponies here & a few more children around so though it was a good move.
Been here for 2 months now, pony has settled amazingly, allergies have gone ! All is okay,
But !
The same as the old yard - I feel like im Walking on eggshells all of the time & worrying about upsetting or annoying anyone - there are some hard faced women here & a lot of moaning !
I come with a 4 year old, a 10 month - old generally in a pushchair, toys, a Shetland which my daughter will lead & do everything with.
I just feel like I’m annoying people & worried about spooking horses, getting in the way with my pushchair, rallying around etc.
Sooooo … my question is am I better off finding a smaller yard with just a few stables to have our own space (like a needle in a haystack atm) a smaller diy yard with 10 or less
Or I have been offered a paddock which is in walking distance from our house & my daughters school ; which sounds amazing ! But she would be on her own tho !
What should I dooooo I’m such a worrier & need help making decisions
Any advice from people with ponies & children ?!
I’m trying to figure out where we belong best.
I’m 30 with 2 children, my oldest daughter is 4 & youngest is 10 months old.
We have a beautiful little Shetland mare my oldest rides & she is literally my 3rd child ! Hence why I’m mothering so much about what’s best for us all.
We started off at a large livery yard with around 30 horses. I’ve been here for years with my horses previously. We were there for just under a year & a half; 1 year with a previous pony & 4 months with our new pony.
I love the yard for me, when I was riding & have some friends to ride with etc. yard is good but our pony really suffered with allergies there. There were no other children for my daughter to play, ride & hang around with.
We decided to move & with the slim pickings at the time moved to another big yard 20 horses so a little smaller, there are other ponies here & a few more children around so though it was a good move.
Been here for 2 months now, pony has settled amazingly, allergies have gone ! All is okay,
But !
The same as the old yard - I feel like im Walking on eggshells all of the time & worrying about upsetting or annoying anyone - there are some hard faced women here & a lot of moaning !
I come with a 4 year old, a 10 month - old generally in a pushchair, toys, a Shetland which my daughter will lead & do everything with.
I just feel like I’m annoying people & worried about spooking horses, getting in the way with my pushchair, rallying around etc.
Sooooo … my question is am I better off finding a smaller yard with just a few stables to have our own space (like a needle in a haystack atm) a smaller diy yard with 10 or less
Or I have been offered a paddock which is in walking distance from our house & my daughters school ; which sounds amazing ! But she would be on her own tho !
What should I dooooo I’m such a worrier & need help making decisions
Any advice from people with ponies & children ?!