Livery yard wars.....

EMC

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Is this a normal thing?

I've moved to a new yard and over the past few months have come to know the owners quite well, seeing the yard take shape through their dedication and hard work has been an inspiration. An inspiration not just for my own riding (the YO is always happy to ride out with me and provide pointers with Fred's re-training), but it has given me hope that good honest hard work can work wonders.

That is until this evening.....I was told that one of the new liveries (a lovely lady) has been banned from seeing her friends in her old yard down the road by members or the owners of her old yard and also that a local yard has been spreading rumours that there is no grazing etc. etc. in an effort to dissuade potential customers from moving their horses.

What a horrible thing to do! Most of us have to keep our horses away from home, if customers are leaving a yard and moving then either there is a problem in how a yard is run/facilities etc or perhaps people move because their new yard may be cheaper or closer to home.

Regardless....all yards need to make money and instead of spreading rumours surely it is both professional and polite to get along with nearby yards??

I have to say there is plenty of grazing, a school is being built, large airy stables and brilliant hacking...more than enough for the average rider. I would post the name of the yard here but I don't want to 'advertise' merely to highlight the childishness of some YO's. If anybody would like more information, you are welcome to PM me.

I'm all for an honest opinion of a yard from someone who knows first hand but silly rumours are ridiculous. Has anybody else had this problem?
 
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Welcome to yard politics *sigh*. There is absolutely no reason for them, they hit like a thunderbolt, and they contra-dict everything everyone thought. Tbh, I don't think anyone on a lot of these yards knows (inc YO's) know why some rules are there in the first place. :rolleyes:
 
So I take it your friend is not allowed to visit the old yard, but are her friends allowed to visit the new yard? Given a choice within a short distance I think I would be tempted to join her on the new one once I'd seen it for myself! Who wants to stay with the vindictive folk? Stupid games people play and all shooting themselves in the foot really!
 
Not that unusual tbh. There's been on ongoing war near me between a few. Ours are on a small farm, so I'm seen as a possible recruit to the warring sides unfortunately. I get approached by random nutters who I don't know from Adam with bs stories about one or the other yard quite often. I find it hilarious. Not long ago there was a heated debate as to who's yard has the best fencing, which ran for several days on Facebook. And we had hay-gate last winter, when one yard went round slagging everyone else's quality, & field position of forage.
 
They do need to be a bit careful. If I'd fully realised what yard politics and general bitchiness could be like before I bought a horse it would have put me off. Luckily I'm not suffering from it at present, but it makes me worry what I will do if I ever get in the position where I can't afford my current yard.

Paula
 
When I gave my first YO notice of leaving I got a text later that night that said something like 'I hope you achieve everything that you want to in future and that eventually you fulfill your dreams of getting a place in Cornwall.' I replied and said 'you make it sound like we won't ever talk in future you silly woman :)' I remember thinking how strange it was - I was pretty close to YO and her family. They drove a good 300 miles to attend my Wedding!

I left that yard a year ago and I haven't heard a peep. Very soon after I left I saw YO at a show and she was a bit wierd and I started talking about another livery on the yard who had her horse PTS since I had left. She was furious that I knew and that I had heard from the other liveries since I had left. She marched off and phoned the girl who had 'leaked information' and I was told later that she was shouting down the phone and was furious with my friend who had shared the story! I was well and truly ex communicated.

Nowt as strange as folk.
 
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