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Tammy dryden

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hello everyone, I've been on my current livery yard for 6 years and never had a problem and always got on well with the owners , after loosing my old horse a while back I got my new youngster, my problem i have is that the yard owners have started giving me the silent treatment and watching and judging me every time I ride!! Its making me hate being down there, its only seemed to happen since getting my new boy!! Please help It feels like I have no one to talk to xx
 
That doesn’t sound nice. Did anything happen before the silent treatment started? It seems strange that you had a good relationship for 6 years and then things have turned nasty for no reason. Have you been having problems with your new horse? I appreciate many people do not like confrontation but if I was you I’d have to ask them what the problem is. If it’s stopping you enjoying riding and going to the yard you need to address it. You are a paying customer and don’t deserve to be treated like that so take the bull by the horns and speak to them. You can’t find a solution if you don’t know what the problem is. Good luck!
 
Upthecreek said:
That doesn’t sound nice. Did anything happen before the silent treatment started? It seems strange that you had a good relationship for 6 years and then things have turned nasty for no reason. Have you been having problems with your new horse? I appreciate many people do not like confrontation but if I was you I’d have to ask them what the problem is. If it’s stopping you enjoying riding and going to the yard you need to address it. You are a paying customer and don’t deserve to be treated like that so take the bull by the horns and speak to them. You can’t find a solution if you don’t know what the problem is. Good luck!
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Thank you so much, my new boy is a youngster and he is very vocal they keep making comments on how different he is from my last horse , then they can go days with not even talking to me , not even a hello !!! Its very frustrating, I'm trying to ignore it but Its getting more harder xx
 
Honey08 said:
I think you need to bite the bullet and ask them if there’s anything wrong. Does your horse cause problems? Perhaps it’s the horse they don’t like.
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I'm thinking they don't like my new boy, he's very different from my last horse , he doesn't cause problems he's just very vocal and he likes people to know he's around he's only 5 and very green xx
 
Tammy dryden said:
I'm thinking they don't like my new boy, he's very different from my last horse , he doesn't cause problems he's just very vocal and he likes people to know he's around he's only 5 and very green xx
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If he’s a particularly nice horse, could they simply be envious? Jealousy and envy make people act in very strange ways ?‍♀️
 
chocolategirl said:
If he’s a particularly nice horse, could they simply be envious? Jealousy and envy make people act in very strange ways ?‍♀️
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Someone did mention this to me, my farrier said he has lots of potential and we will go for with each other . I suppose I'm being to over sensitive but its gotten to the point I'm going down early morning to ride just to avoid them x
 
Tammy dryden said:
Someone did mention this to me, my farrier said he has lots of potential and we will go for with each other . I suppose I'm being to over sensitive but its gotten to the point I'm going down early morning to ride just to avoid them x
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Having run my own DIY yard for 25 years, believe me, this is a strong possibility ?
 
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