horseForce
Active Member
So I've been frequenting the usual local horsy FB groups hoping to find something I can share or loan a few days a week. I must say, the response has been pretty dismal. Meanwhile, I can't help but notice others making similar posts and getting a fairly good response on the whole. Why? It's bizarre but as time goes on I can't help but think the reason is fairly simple. I'm a bloke. Any thoughts on that? Be as blunt as you want, I'd rather that then some sort of song and dance about how some women might feel this or feel that and the stranger-danger narrative kicking in.
Similarly, I put an ad up on Preloved. Had a woman get in touch (my username there is gender neutral) and suggested I call her on here mobile. She sounded quite bemused and shocked if I'm honest hearing this deep voice of mine. Mid sentence after telling me it's her daughters horse she tells me she's actually at work and she needs to ring me back. Well guess what? No call back...
Similarly, I put an ad up on Preloved. Had a woman get in touch (my username there is gender neutral) and suggested I call her on here mobile. She sounded quite bemused and shocked if I'm honest hearing this deep voice of mine. Mid sentence after telling me it's her daughters horse she tells me she's actually at work and she needs to ring me back. Well guess what? No call back...