Loss of confidence - Update

spider

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Just an update to all the kind people who gave me advice and sympathy when I fell off and lost my confidence. Found I couldn't even go in the school without panicking and bursting into tears. Had a couple of weeks off riding to let my arm recover, and then had a couple of half hour private lessons where I insisted the instructor walked with me round the spooky end of the school! She made me concentrate on keeping his attention on me rather than things happening outside which helped a lot. So I have being riding in the school for a week.Yesterday I decided I had to force myself to go for a hack. No-one was available to go with me so I co-erced hubby to walk with me. Then today I went out for a short hack on my own. We only walked and had two scary moments but he didn't spin and we got back in one piece. I will try joining in my normal group lesson tomorrow. So now I feel I have made some progress whereas before I was beginning to feel I would give up riding. Thanks everyone.
 
WEll done you for sticking with it. I do know how you feel because I have been there. If you keep taking it slow and steady but pushing yourself a little bit each time, you will be fine
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Really good - great progress! Its how you feel and if you feel like that you just do and that's they way it is. You are doing really well to get through it.
 
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