Cobonthejob
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I have owned my mare for 8 months now, she is a 6 year-old Connemara x Cob type. For the first 4 months she was so placid and easy to handle on the ground, however she was then moved to a new yard with much better facilities. In all respects the new yard is much better in terms of routines, grazing and facilities. She is my first horse, despite riding for 20+ years.
She was initially great in the new yard but now after two months she has started to show aggression towards me. It started quite suddenly in the stable she just went for me when grooming her and really injured me quite badly. Being in shock I probably didn't react appropriately and just got out of her stable rather than scolding her- subsequently perhaps she believes that I am not in control? She has had a couple of good weeks and then gone back to this behaviour today (trying to bite, refusing to be tied and groomed etc). She has also become increasingly aggressive to other horses (particularly geldings) and will quite literally go for them if the pass too close to her in the yard.
She is very green in the ridden sense but is showing progress and is still great to ride, it is just on the ground she seems to have an issue. I have had lots of advice from people at the yard in terms of getting her to respect me which I really appreciate but I am still getting so disheartened. I am trying to be assertive with her but we seem to get in to a battle each time- perhaps I am doing this wrong?
Saddle been checked, vet coming out soon. Is it possible that this is just to do with her seasons and maybe I have not owned her long enough to see what she is like over a summer?
I really don't want these behaviours to become ingrained. I appreciate that I may not be able to change her behaviour towards other horses but biting and being aggressive to me are not acceptable. I am now having days where I am in tears, yet there are still days in between where she is perfect!
I never knew owning a horse would have so many highs and lows...
She was initially great in the new yard but now after two months she has started to show aggression towards me. It started quite suddenly in the stable she just went for me when grooming her and really injured me quite badly. Being in shock I probably didn't react appropriately and just got out of her stable rather than scolding her- subsequently perhaps she believes that I am not in control? She has had a couple of good weeks and then gone back to this behaviour today (trying to bite, refusing to be tied and groomed etc). She has also become increasingly aggressive to other horses (particularly geldings) and will quite literally go for them if the pass too close to her in the yard.
She is very green in the ridden sense but is showing progress and is still great to ride, it is just on the ground she seems to have an issue. I have had lots of advice from people at the yard in terms of getting her to respect me which I really appreciate but I am still getting so disheartened. I am trying to be assertive with her but we seem to get in to a battle each time- perhaps I am doing this wrong?
Saddle been checked, vet coming out soon. Is it possible that this is just to do with her seasons and maybe I have not owned her long enough to see what she is like over a summer?
I really don't want these behaviours to become ingrained. I appreciate that I may not be able to change her behaviour towards other horses but biting and being aggressive to me are not acceptable. I am now having days where I am in tears, yet there are still days in between where she is perfect!
I never knew owning a horse would have so many highs and lows...