With body language. It's a matter of being receptive to it. If you are, they learn that it works, and tend to become more communicative. If you always ignore what they communicate, they tend to shut down. This is a massive generalisation and I think most people are somewhere in the middle. I try to "listen" and look for signs - moving away, tail swishing, ears back, leg lifting are all obvious, but facial expression, head elevation, general "feel" are more subtle. But sometimes they just have to suck it up, because they don't know everything that I know.I may have missed it but how do they tell you?
Love this explanation.With body language. It's a matter of being receptive to it. If you are, they learn that it works, and tend to become more communicative. If you always ignore what they communicate, they tend to shut down. This is a massive generalisation and I think most people are somewhere in the middle. I try to "listen" and look for signs - moving away, tail swishing, ears back, leg lifting are all obvious, but facial expression, head elevation, general "feel" are more subtle. But sometimes they just have to suck it up, because they don't know everything that I know.
Agree, the more you 'listen' the better they get at 'talking'With body language. It's a matter of being receptive to it. If you are, they learn that it works, and tend to become more communicative. If you always ignore what they communicate, they tend to shut down. This is a massive generalisation and I think most people are somewhere in the middle. I try to "listen" and look for signs - moving away, tail swishing, ears back, leg lifting are all obvious, but facial expression, head elevation, general "feel" are more subtle. But sometimes they just have to suck it up, because they don't know everything that I know.