Moving my horse and feeling guilty about it...

Kitari

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I decided to move my mare closer to me, nothing major about it or anything but I feel guilty about the whole thing.

I start my new job on Monday it is a 9 hour shift from 8am to 5pm, no doubt the rest of the week will reflect the Monday schedule since we are stocking the entire store.

I pay 200 a month for board

Pro List

A stall

Worming

Daily turn out

My choice of feed providing my BO can buy it at the feed store she goes to.

Use of the "arena" really about the size of a long round pen. Enough room to walk and trot comfortably, a bit of a squeeze for a canter

Use of whatever props are floating around the place

Hay, approx 3-4 flakes each when they are stalled

A single trail on approximatly 10 acres in the back

Cons list

The tack room is open to the rest of the barn, so the cats can come and go as they please, dusty etc.

Cats peed on my saddle

Dog can be a pest, thinks its fun to chase or pace Poco when im trying to longe her

Dog drops rocks everywhere

No rest room to use, I have to use a stall or go knock on the door and hope someone is there.

FB who lacks some fundamentals of common sense, really nice but lacks fundamentals.

It can be lonely

"Arena" isnt fully covered in sand

Costs about $10-$15 a trip including toll bridge costs.

The trail has alot of under growth, have yet to see any trail clearing that was promised a couple months ago.


This place Im considering i turned down originally for only a couple reasons, i figured we would have moved in a couple months and it would have been closer to be at the place i am now

his place is $200 a month and is about 20-30 minutes depending on how you drive

Pro list

Straight pasture board w/ run in shed 5-12 acres with only 2 other horses in each

not 1 but 2 tack rooms

a standard dressage arena, low PVC piping for a "fence" considerably larger than my current "arena"

A jumping area

Round pen

Hot walker

Loads of trails on and off property

Smaller boarding place but larger than where im at now

a rest room

an actual area to wash your horse

Occasional shows there that i could use to desensative Poco to.

A place where i can microwave something to eat and wash my hands

Con List

I have to drive on an interstate, not bad during non rush hour traffic but during it can be a nightmare

No guarentee I can see Poco more

I supply my own feed and worming


I just feel guilty, like comparing it to a guy leaving his girlfriend for someone prettier or something....
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Where in the US are you based if you don't mind me asking. I wouldn't feel too guilty it sounds as though the new place is far better in the long-run and I'm sure you'll make loads of friends there befoer long. Good luck
 
Im In the southeast in Alabama. I know the new place is alot better overall, and my fiance thinks i feel guilty because i like my current BO.

I forgot on the con list for my current barn. The dog ate my lead rope.

The cats peeing on my saddle really T'ed me off. Im so glad it was my synthetic abetta and not the Courbette I'll be getting in a couple weeks. It took me awhile but I finally wound up using dish soap to get the cat piss out.

Here is a video i took of the place I checked out yesterday, I finally got it uploaded

http://www.veoh.com/videos/v6294798Y4AjJbN4
 
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