Moving yards dilemma!!!

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Im in a right dilemma about what to do with my daughters pony.

Im currently at a large DIY yard, which ive been at a year, i know alot of the people and get on really well with them, i also get lifts to lots of shows and as i dont have my own transprt its quite important as my daughter loves competing, and in that respect im really happy. The facillities arent the best but they do for an 11.2 pony.
There are some issues i have with the yard though, they have a lot of turnout but its badly managed which means in the winter the fields can be shut for a few weeks at a time, there then open them for a few weeks then shut them again, the only free time my little pony gets is loose in the school, hes fine with this but im of the opion they need regular turnout.In the summer they can live out 24/7 but also i have to be care as my pony with his previous loaner was on the verge or laminits. They also recently rented a block of 12 stables to a a girl who runs this as a seperate full livery part, they seem to be taking over, the school get 'booked up' for apparent clinics but its more so they can have private use of the school fot there liveries and as there a large group they can afford to pay the 2.50 charge to book it. I on the other hand already pay livery so dont want to book the school for my daughter to ride and have to pay everytime. I have approached the YO about this she just shrugs it off as i think they bring in to much income as they pay for 12 stables regardless of whether there full or not.

Ive not been offered a DIY spot at another yard, i do know the lady quite well, my daughter is starting the same class as hers at school, and as have been in the same area for years and friends been at the yard, she emailed me to offer the stable. Its mainly a full livery yard with hacking direct onto Windsor Great Park, turn out not amazing but very well managed for what they have they go out on alternate days through the winter and daily in the summer but not overnight. They also have a horsewalker, not that ill really use this. The only other 2 DIYs are for her friends. Shes mainly offered this stable to me as she wants a riding partner for her daughter. But this will benifit mine too.
The downside is they dont go to many shows it is slightly more money but better facilties so paying for what you get.

I just feel torn i love the people that im at now, its taken a year for me to get settled there and i do earn extra cash for teaching clipping and that a my current yard. And they do help me over the winter with putting haynets ect. I know i will probaly settle in the new place and get all this its just that comfort thing. Maybe i need a kick up at the arse, in theory the new yard would be better for pony but hes settled to (not that he cares where is as long as hes fed!!)
Id be greatfull for Your opions, sorry for the long winded thing, i just dont want to rush and make the wrong choice, as the yard im presently at, the lady gets funny when you move and doesnt tend to take previous liveries back!!

Also like to mention this area its DIY is hard to come by and the good yards you can wait a year on the waiting list and ive not even been on it, so dont want to turn it down with no though!!!
 
I suppose you have to think about whether the other yard are likely to take over even more as time goes on and how that will affect you. Also, what if your daughter and the owners child fall out, is that likely to be a problem - I have been there and ended up moving because my daughter was just so upset over the whole thing, she was older, about 12, but something to think about! Can you not talk to YO a bout how things are, tell her you have been offered somewhere else but don't really want to move (not sure how risky that is). Good luck with whatever you decide, it's not an easy one!
 
Yer, i did try and chat to her but she just shruged it off, apparently said to somebody else she cant afford to upset them as they bring to much money in, and shes not the most professional person in the world, and can be become quite moody if ever questione about anything, ive never ha a problem with her but others have.

The kids are 6 so should be ok for a bit but yes your righ you never know, although ive been told shes very professional and has been running the yard for many years with great success places dont come up there often. I had to very close firends liveried there they only moved on as there sister set up a livery yard. Ive chatted to them at lengh and theyve nothing but praise for her.
Its i just keep umming and arring dont want to make the worng choice as i seem to spend most my time apart from work at the stables!!
 
If your YO is more worried about the money this other yard brings in rather than her own clients then I would be looking for the positives in the move I think! If they are already making it difficult they will get worse the more established they get. If you think the new YO is professional (and can remain so if the girls fall out - might be worth discussing!) then it has got to be a win win situation for you all
 
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