nasty posting

Oh for gods sake, dammed button pushers again.

Sorry you have been banned GV, if were are going down that route, you shouldn't have been the only one.

Look forward to your return :D :D
 
I'm really sad to see her name has gone dark. She is forthright, but also a knowledgeable horsewoman whose opinion is always worth considering.

Definitely not a troll.

Yes I am also sad to see the name go dark. :(

I have to say that I know GV very well and consider her a friend. It is such a shame that so many of you have a low opinion of her as she really is a lovely person with a heart of gold.
I will never forget what she did for me in a time of crisis and I love her dearly for it. I hope she comes back.
 
Yes I am also sad to see the name go dark. :(

I have to say that I know GV very well and consider her a friend. It is such a shame that so many of you have a low opinion of her as she really is a lovely person with a heart of gold.
I will never forget what she did for me in a time of crisis and I love her dearly for it. I hope she comes back.

Im sure she is, but it has to be said that when you have been squished by tfc a number of times, charging into a post all guns blazing with such strong views is a way to just get yourself noticed and banned... again. Im not saying she wasn't entitled to being anti DD, and whilst I tend to try and keep an open mind, I could understand her opinion on this, but there are ways. She doesn't have to beat around the bush in her opinions but she was extremely scathing, and someone coming in under a new username like that with such a particular style is only going to get themselves noticed and looked into further. If GV/MC really wanted to re-enter the fold, she should have thought twice about integrating herself into the thread, as I said there are always ways of putting your views strongly without getting everybody so worked up. Im positive that she was entertained, and to some extent I found her presence entertaining:rolleyes: but, it just feels like all she wanted to do was to come on and troll for a while, with the aim of upsetting and insulting people. Friendly and helpful in person she may be, but she was quite the opposite in her persona
 
In general on here I would say the actual incidences of people being horrid for the sake of it or plain vile are vastly outnumbered by those who are too easily offended. And on numerous occasions I have read blunt, but true & unbitchy posters have groups of posters all responding with horrid personal remarks. More than once I've been accused of being unpleasant because I hold a different opinion. Sorry, but if someone asks something I disagree with, or just plain stupid, I'm not going to write some sucking up reply that's basically a lie about my true opinion incase I offend them. Some posts I've read either directed at me, or just a general view point I could take as deeply offensive, or just disagree with. But its really not necessary to take it to heart & get upset over. I disagree entirely with gv's opinions on dd. But that doesn't mean they are vile or cruel, just bluntly expressed & not the same as mine. And if gv or anyone else posts conflicting views to my own, it doesn't mean I can't/won't agree on another subject. I have far more respect for those willing to voice a differing view, than those who are just sheep with no voice of their own. Or those who take differing opinions as personally offensive & either play the bullying card or get overly emotional, or very rude in response.

excellently put.

seriously, i think some of you actually enjoy being offended. Then a lot of you seem to have a contest seeing who can be more outraged than the next poster until the whole thing gets completely blown out of proportion.
 
I post quite a bit, and reply to any posts i read that i have anything useful to reply with. Otherwise, i keep my mouth shut, as it drives me mad with alot of negative replies that are posted. YES, most of us are stupid sometimes, and land ourselves in sticky situations. But, I dont think anyone posts here to get a mountain of grief, just a little advice and as said, hugs!!!!
Littlelegs, can say I nearly agree with your post, it's not the difference of opinion that annoys people, as far as I know, it's the tone in which they are written. I dont think that anyone expects everyone to agree with them, it's the vile way that some replies are written are the problem. xxx
 
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Because they are anonymous and they like to bully and control people. I have met through horses some of the kindest most lovely people and the very worst people I have ever met. Horses bring out the very best in people and the very worst.
 
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