barefootbeginner
Active Member
I'm feeling very helpless after BD'ing this week and seeing a rider who I cannot believe could have been even remotely close to the 20% ratio of their horse competing on the same day. I have battled with hormone- and health-condition-related weight issues in the past myself and have worked extremely hard to get to a weight that is safe, healthy and sustainable for my horse to carry. I also have a bigger horse to give me even more "leeway". So I am in no way whatsoever criticising another human's body, knowing how harmful that can be. What I don't know how to cope with is keeping shtum around what feel like welfare issues. I would advocate genuinely for all body types being welcome and belonging in the horse sport community, with everyone needing to "horse themselves" appropriately for welfare requirements of the ratios. The combination competing alongside myself were a horse showing a lot of resistance in the warm up and (to me) clearly crying out through their aversion to the ring that they weren't coping. How do others handle it? I'm thinking we all love horses so much that others must feel sore inside at what these horses are experiencing? Or is it a case of staying in your lane and zone, ignoring as best you can with the knowledge that it's within the rules, and live and let live?
I suppose I'm wondering whether others are submitting anything to BD to increase the voices calling for change in this area? That feels savage if it involves photos/specific names, but anything else seems to be shouting into the void.
I realise now this is all just waffle but I think just getting it off my chest within a community I respect is helping me, so sorry anyone at this point has had to wade through all this for nothing really!!!
I suppose I'm wondering whether others are submitting anything to BD to increase the voices calling for change in this area? That feels savage if it involves photos/specific names, but anything else seems to be shouting into the void.
I realise now this is all just waffle but I think just getting it off my chest within a community I respect is helping me, so sorry anyone at this point has had to wade through all this for nothing really!!!