TwixMum
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This is my first time posting on here so hopefully I actually manage to post this post and its in the right place. A friend suggested posted on here to get some advice about my 15 year old gelding.
He currently has EMS and has been on and off work for the past 4 years. We also suspect he has Cushings and will be testing soon when I can afford to. It really does break my heart to see him now as he looks a shadow of his former self, underweight lacking muscle. He previously showjumped to 1.40m and was very easy to keep. I would say he looks reasonably healthy but he was always a character and I feel he is no longer like this. He always loved to work but I have to limit what i do as he is 1-2/10 lame so its more pottering about. He can be quite sharp. He is underweight so gets quite a lot of feed just to maintain his weight, so i think this contributes to his sharpness. Because of the EMS he is on restricted turnout and is stabled for the rest of the time. I am currently starting to struggle financially and have to keep him on livery as don't have the time to do him myself.
A few people have suggested tome maybe it's time to consider putting him to sleep as he is essentially a very expensive pet and I am struggling financially. He looks ok in that he has a shiny coat but I do worry about his weight and he can be quite grumpy now which he never was before. He can be very lethargic when ridden but at the same time can be quite sharp. I have always put as much money as I can into his care and I feel very guilty even thinking about it.
I have looked for a sharer for him for the past 6 months and had very little interest. For those that have contacted me weren't suitable as he is not a novice ride and they were under the impression that they could put lots of work into him and he will be a showjumper again which is not the case.
I have also thought about selling him or loaning him but again I worry about who he would go to and if they would look after him as he does have strict management.
Is or has anyone been in this position? Ideally I'd win the lottery buy my own place and he can retire with me but I need to be realistic as my finances are shrinking and the cost of keeping him is rising. I would really appreciate if people will not judge me too harshly as I truly love this horse and he was my horse of a lifetime
He currently has EMS and has been on and off work for the past 4 years. We also suspect he has Cushings and will be testing soon when I can afford to. It really does break my heart to see him now as he looks a shadow of his former self, underweight lacking muscle. He previously showjumped to 1.40m and was very easy to keep. I would say he looks reasonably healthy but he was always a character and I feel he is no longer like this. He always loved to work but I have to limit what i do as he is 1-2/10 lame so its more pottering about. He can be quite sharp. He is underweight so gets quite a lot of feed just to maintain his weight, so i think this contributes to his sharpness. Because of the EMS he is on restricted turnout and is stabled for the rest of the time. I am currently starting to struggle financially and have to keep him on livery as don't have the time to do him myself.
A few people have suggested tome maybe it's time to consider putting him to sleep as he is essentially a very expensive pet and I am struggling financially. He looks ok in that he has a shiny coat but I do worry about his weight and he can be quite grumpy now which he never was before. He can be very lethargic when ridden but at the same time can be quite sharp. I have always put as much money as I can into his care and I feel very guilty even thinking about it.
I have looked for a sharer for him for the past 6 months and had very little interest. For those that have contacted me weren't suitable as he is not a novice ride and they were under the impression that they could put lots of work into him and he will be a showjumper again which is not the case.
I have also thought about selling him or loaning him but again I worry about who he would go to and if they would look after him as he does have strict management.
Is or has anyone been in this position? Ideally I'd win the lottery buy my own place and he can retire with me but I need to be realistic as my finances are shrinking and the cost of keeping him is rising. I would really appreciate if people will not judge me too harshly as I truly love this horse and he was my horse of a lifetime