vickyvan
Member
Hello all, I’m new here but could definitely do with some advice and/or moral support.
A week ago my husband popped out for a walk and found a pony wandering in the road. He knocked on everyone’s door and no one owned it. Not knowing what else to do, he brought it home to our paddock. We fell in love with the pony who was at this point super-friendly and well-behaved.
We put up notices the next day and the owners soon rang. He’d escaped from a field a little way away, where he was supposedly being looked after by a third party. Arrangements for returning the pony turned out to be complex, as the owners have recently moved to a different county, and don’t have much time to spend with him. All of this somehow led to a mutual agreement that he should become ours as we had fallen for him, and would be better placed to look after him.
The issue however is that in the last couple of days the pony has become (occasionally) bad-tempered and ill-mannered, and I don’t know why. He puts his face up in my face with his ears back. When I say ‘no!’ and push him away or push his head down he gets more angry. He’s lunged at my arm attempting to bite me. He’s kicked both my sister-in-law and my husband. In between that, he comes trotting up blowing and snorting when I go out to the field and then walks with me all round it apparently friendly without wearing a halter or lead rein. So far he’s always nice and friendly in the morning (after feed). He takes his halter very quietly.
Am I doing something wrong? Or was he always this way, but it didn’t show when he was confused and lost in the lane? Is he just settling in and testing boundaries? He’s only four, so still quite young. Although we were both around horses to some degree in our youth, that is now a matter of decades ago; so we’re novices to all intents and purposes. What is worrying me is that he might be a naturally friendly chap but is being a git because he’s stressed. I mind a bit less if we’ve blindly taken on a natural grump - he’s welcome to grump in our field all the days of his life! But I don’t want to be the cause of him being upset.
Any advice gratefully received!
A week ago my husband popped out for a walk and found a pony wandering in the road. He knocked on everyone’s door and no one owned it. Not knowing what else to do, he brought it home to our paddock. We fell in love with the pony who was at this point super-friendly and well-behaved.
We put up notices the next day and the owners soon rang. He’d escaped from a field a little way away, where he was supposedly being looked after by a third party. Arrangements for returning the pony turned out to be complex, as the owners have recently moved to a different county, and don’t have much time to spend with him. All of this somehow led to a mutual agreement that he should become ours as we had fallen for him, and would be better placed to look after him.
The issue however is that in the last couple of days the pony has become (occasionally) bad-tempered and ill-mannered, and I don’t know why. He puts his face up in my face with his ears back. When I say ‘no!’ and push him away or push his head down he gets more angry. He’s lunged at my arm attempting to bite me. He’s kicked both my sister-in-law and my husband. In between that, he comes trotting up blowing and snorting when I go out to the field and then walks with me all round it apparently friendly without wearing a halter or lead rein. So far he’s always nice and friendly in the morning (after feed). He takes his halter very quietly.
Am I doing something wrong? Or was he always this way, but it didn’t show when he was confused and lost in the lane? Is he just settling in and testing boundaries? He’s only four, so still quite young. Although we were both around horses to some degree in our youth, that is now a matter of decades ago; so we’re novices to all intents and purposes. What is worrying me is that he might be a naturally friendly chap but is being a git because he’s stressed. I mind a bit less if we’ve blindly taken on a natural grump - he’s welcome to grump in our field all the days of his life! But I don’t want to be the cause of him being upset.
Any advice gratefully received!