Girlychu
Well-Known Member
Long story short -
Owned my 8 year old lad for 6 years. Brought on and backed by pros at 4 years old. All was fine, a real laid back lad - no issues. Then when he was 5 I was having a jumping lesson, fell off and hurt my back by going through fence. Lost confidence completely. Didn't ride him for 2 years, though I would borrow other horses and go on wee hacks.
Anyway I allowed someone else to ride him and he competed in cross country, jump cross and show jumping. He was always placed. Then one day I decided that there was no point in keeping him if I was not going to ride him. Fast forward .....
I have weekly lessons - weather permiting - and I pop wee jumps in the school. So I thought I would enter a teeny cross country comp - our first ever. Disaster we jumped one fence and he took off
Couldnt stop him. We then hired the local jump x course all was fine till heading home couldn't stop him. Tried everything and ended up pulling the reins as hard as I could with my whole weight at the back of the saddle.
I would say most of the fences were within sight of the car/trailer.
My instructor thinks its been a case of "point and gallop" with the other rider and not really to help me. He only tanks off after the jump. We can trot in but on landing its all systems go only and we only jump up to 2 feet.
So now Im confident in the school but Im losing confidence in ever being able to take him away from home.
Hes a cob x tb, fed a teeny weeny bit of chaf and blue chip after he has been ridden as a thankyou. Back, teeth etc all been checked recently. He is ridden normally in a dutch gag on the snaffle ring but down a ring when away from home.
Any ideas on re-education would be welcome. Im on a small, friendly yard but really have no one on hand to help. I have a lovely instructor who I only see once a week (outdoor school only and easily gets bogged down).
Ideas so far have been calmers, change bit, send away, etc
Many thanks for reading this
Owned my 8 year old lad for 6 years. Brought on and backed by pros at 4 years old. All was fine, a real laid back lad - no issues. Then when he was 5 I was having a jumping lesson, fell off and hurt my back by going through fence. Lost confidence completely. Didn't ride him for 2 years, though I would borrow other horses and go on wee hacks.
Anyway I allowed someone else to ride him and he competed in cross country, jump cross and show jumping. He was always placed. Then one day I decided that there was no point in keeping him if I was not going to ride him. Fast forward .....
I have weekly lessons - weather permiting - and I pop wee jumps in the school. So I thought I would enter a teeny cross country comp - our first ever. Disaster we jumped one fence and he took off
I would say most of the fences were within sight of the car/trailer.
My instructor thinks its been a case of "point and gallop" with the other rider and not really to help me. He only tanks off after the jump. We can trot in but on landing its all systems go only and we only jump up to 2 feet.
So now Im confident in the school but Im losing confidence in ever being able to take him away from home.
Hes a cob x tb, fed a teeny weeny bit of chaf and blue chip after he has been ridden as a thankyou. Back, teeth etc all been checked recently. He is ridden normally in a dutch gag on the snaffle ring but down a ring when away from home.
Any ideas on re-education would be welcome. Im on a small, friendly yard but really have no one on hand to help. I have a lovely instructor who I only see once a week (outdoor school only and easily gets bogged down).
Ideas so far have been calmers, change bit, send away, etc
Many thanks for reading this