katiejam
Well-Known Member
Rant required
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I have always wanted to do a BE event but never felt ready / good enough until recently. I have entered Richmond this weekend and have a really mixtured emotions going though my head at the moment. One minute I am nervous and the next minute I am really excited! The whole thing is a massive deal for me!
I regularly get up at 5 to ride before work or am still at the stables at 9pm, just to get practice and fitness work in, all gearing up for this weekend!
One of my uni friends decided to organise a girly weekend THIS weekend! I said I can't go. Now they think very badly of me for choosing my horse over them. One is barley talking to me and the other had a moan at me on the phone this morning.
I know we don't get together very often but with a stressful job and a crap family life, my horse is (and my financee!) are the only things that keep me sane.
How do I make them realise what my horse means to me, how much I enjoy competing and how much of a big commitment they are???
My view is that there is no point having a competition horse if you are not going to put the work in. Also I am nearly 30 and getting married next year. The chances are that within the next 3/4 years we will want to start a family. If we do that the competing will stop (or certainly down scale). I therefore want to make the most of it while I can. My horse and the ability to compete might not always be there but surly good friends will???
I'm just upset that my best fiend doesn't share (or is willing to understand) such a big part of my life. She has put a real dampener on the weekend ahead???!!!!
rant and off load over!
And to top it all off, I've been working on a big spreadsheet at work this morning and didn't save my changes before my computer crashed!
I have always wanted to do a BE event but never felt ready / good enough until recently. I have entered Richmond this weekend and have a really mixtured emotions going though my head at the moment. One minute I am nervous and the next minute I am really excited! The whole thing is a massive deal for me!
I regularly get up at 5 to ride before work or am still at the stables at 9pm, just to get practice and fitness work in, all gearing up for this weekend!
One of my uni friends decided to organise a girly weekend THIS weekend! I said I can't go. Now they think very badly of me for choosing my horse over them. One is barley talking to me and the other had a moan at me on the phone this morning.
I know we don't get together very often but with a stressful job and a crap family life, my horse is (and my financee!) are the only things that keep me sane.
How do I make them realise what my horse means to me, how much I enjoy competing and how much of a big commitment they are???
My view is that there is no point having a competition horse if you are not going to put the work in. Also I am nearly 30 and getting married next year. The chances are that within the next 3/4 years we will want to start a family. If we do that the competing will stop (or certainly down scale). I therefore want to make the most of it while I can. My horse and the ability to compete might not always be there but surly good friends will???
I'm just upset that my best fiend doesn't share (or is willing to understand) such a big part of my life. She has put a real dampener on the weekend ahead???!!!!
rant and off load over!
And to top it all off, I've been working on a big spreadsheet at work this morning and didn't save my changes before my computer crashed!