ImmyS
Well-Known Member
sadly both although someone on the ground motivates me more, on my own I just feel like giving up!
has your instructor ridden the horse?
It does sound like there is more to this than just you lacking confidence/horse taking the mick. If he was going well not long ago and now a sudden change this would suggest pain/discomfort. It may just be that your friend is a ‘stronger’ rider and pushed him through it - that’s doesn’t mean that there isn’t pain causing the behaviour.