bonnysmum
Well-Known Member
Hi everyone
I'm a newbie here. I've introduced myself as requested and was recommended to come straight on over here and ask my questions, so here goes. To cut a long story short, my daughter has been having riding lessons for just under a year and loves every minute of it. She's cantering nicely and just started learning to jump. She's 11 and a very shy & anxious child, and she would spend every waking moment with horses if she could. Herein lies the problem that we are not a horse family and while I have several kind friends willing to lend their ponies and time we are finding that begging favours and having to pre-arrange sessions is not working out for us too well. My daughter desperately wants (and, given her temperament I would argue needs) a pony to call her own. We have livery etc. sorted we just need to try and find that pony!
And wow, what a minefield! First of all I've had next to no luck with private sellers. Because of where we live there are no ponies for sale closer than about a 3 hour drive and I work full time, so everyone who is more local can get there before me. Furthermore almost every seller will tell me their pony isn't suitable for a novice rider and isn't happy for me to take my daughter to view. Those who I've lined up viewings with have dried up and disappeared off the face of the earth before said viewing has materialised. :-(
So, we tried a dealer, armed with full awareness of the buyer beware principle. Wow, talk about a baptism of fire! I won't go into it here, but my goodness did I feel out of my depth. I have no intention of buying any horse or organising a vetting unless my daughter's instructor has seen it, but the impression I had is that if I wasn't prepared to put down money there & then, then I could forget ever being able to buy one. They also said "at the end of the day it's your money, and your instructor's job is to teach on whatever you give them". Eh? That attitude didn't sit well with me.
So I need tons and tons of advice at all stages of this (and I am getting it from friends and our riding instructor, don't get me wrong), but right now I am really needing help with how to get my foot through the door as a serious buyer and how to have any chance at all of doing my due diligence and not losing out to those willing to flash the cash at the first viewing. TIA.
I'm a newbie here. I've introduced myself as requested and was recommended to come straight on over here and ask my questions, so here goes. To cut a long story short, my daughter has been having riding lessons for just under a year and loves every minute of it. She's cantering nicely and just started learning to jump. She's 11 and a very shy & anxious child, and she would spend every waking moment with horses if she could. Herein lies the problem that we are not a horse family and while I have several kind friends willing to lend their ponies and time we are finding that begging favours and having to pre-arrange sessions is not working out for us too well. My daughter desperately wants (and, given her temperament I would argue needs) a pony to call her own. We have livery etc. sorted we just need to try and find that pony!
And wow, what a minefield! First of all I've had next to no luck with private sellers. Because of where we live there are no ponies for sale closer than about a 3 hour drive and I work full time, so everyone who is more local can get there before me. Furthermore almost every seller will tell me their pony isn't suitable for a novice rider and isn't happy for me to take my daughter to view. Those who I've lined up viewings with have dried up and disappeared off the face of the earth before said viewing has materialised. :-(
So, we tried a dealer, armed with full awareness of the buyer beware principle. Wow, talk about a baptism of fire! I won't go into it here, but my goodness did I feel out of my depth. I have no intention of buying any horse or organising a vetting unless my daughter's instructor has seen it, but the impression I had is that if I wasn't prepared to put down money there & then, then I could forget ever being able to buy one. They also said "at the end of the day it's your money, and your instructor's job is to teach on whatever you give them". Eh? That attitude didn't sit well with me.
So I need tons and tons of advice at all stages of this (and I am getting it from friends and our riding instructor, don't get me wrong), but right now I am really needing help with how to get my foot through the door as a serious buyer and how to have any chance at all of doing my due diligence and not losing out to those willing to flash the cash at the first viewing. TIA.