Oh no... he's becoming... a teenager?

[SadKen]

After we lost our old boy a couple of weeks ago, I figured my younger GSD (age 7) would likely change a bit.

Well, I think he's had a testosterone rush now he's the only dog in the house. We saw this when we lost our last dog, as the remaining one bulked up and smelled different - my guess would be that the testosterone in the younger one is naturally reduced to ensure they didn't fight.

He's always acted like a puppy; attentive, not interested in smells, wees like a girl, likes sitting next to me for a fuss... Now he is sniffing everything, peeing like a boy on everything (on walks, not in the house), doesn't want to be patted, briefly IGNORED A RECALL (first time ever). He won't speak to us and just stays in his room with his computer games (OK I made that one up).

I have assured myself that it's the rush of hormones and probably getting used to the new structure now he's an only dog, and he'll settle over time - what do you guys think? Don't really want to whip his nuts off if I can avoid it!

 

[twiggy2]

Just keep up with your training and he will most likely come right.
You managed your other dog fine and you will manage this one too.
He is adjusting to a big change in his world and you need to treat him as if he was a maturing young dog, firm but fair boundaries.
Restrict his access to computer games and money when times are tough as a reminder to whos in charge.

 

[SadKen]

I think I may have to be a bit tougher for sure! I'm not used to that as he has always been so biddable but I guess maybe me being firmer with him will give him a better framework to cling to while we all work it out.

I have spoken to OH and we have both agreed that if he can't follow the rules he will have to start paying rent, and we also agree that he isn't allowed a girlfriend and has to focus on his studies.