ok soooooooo unhorsey but it is lol

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ok to the older ( ummmmm yes im aged side now - 48 lol ) people on here . exit one horrific relationships. gave time to get over that and now with a guy ( 18 months now). weekends are spent at his boat( and no its not a £1/4 million boat just a gorgeous yacht on beautiful lake) so i have compromised in i do all my for my mare all week but weekends a girl i know and trust does her - i have been told its wrong, im walking away from my passion, etc etc. work wise we rarely see in week ( plan is to look for place good for both for work this year) its all good above board met family friends etc - am i wrong to compromise ie spend week with horse but someoe else do her weekend - i have started to feel im letting her down but am i??? i like this guy so much - ummmmmm trust me lol see our phone bills lol - i see my life with him but im being worn down by nasty bitchy comments - the reason he started seeing me is my passion and love for our beautiful horses :) ok please dont rip into me i love my babymare more than anything ( and he knows this and held me when faced having her pts )- be gentle - as after one horrific relationship this one is so so calm nice and good :)
 
I think what you are doing sounds like a great compromise and perfectly reasonable. As long as your horse's needs are being met and she is happy, then what is the problem? Congratulations for finding a man to share your life with. I hope you find somewhere suitable for you and your partner to live soon, and that everything works out well for you. Ignore anyone bad mouthing you, they're obviously just jealous!
 
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I read your post 3 times and now I think I understand :o

You are seeing a nice guy after previously being with a nasty guy? You spend weekends with him on his boat. You have someone look after your horse at weekends when you are with him and you look after your horse through the week? Someone else has told you that you should not be having someone look after your horse at weekends?

If that is a summary of what your post is saying then I don't know why you are even listening to the person who thinks you should look after your horse 7 days a week. What a load of laughable nonsense to suggest someone can't have passion for horses if they don't look after them 7 days a week. Lots of people have passion for their horses but sometimes life demands come first ie. their career, their children, their obligations elsewhere etc.

Maybe this person would like to stay with their boyfriend on his boat and have someone do their horse every weekend for them? Just a thought ;)
 
thank you - trust me me and baby have been through so much from last relationship - and she is my rock and my friend - but this man makes me smile laugh and love waking up to world - he has held me when cried over baby and her eyes - hes watched me with her and ride her and knows my love for her and when we talk about places houses it always " right lets see where for little lass" . but people are so nasty bitchy and cruel - they assume with out knowing and start to bring you down.Why? but thank you xxxx
 
Woah there babymare, you need to do some full stops and capitals! Lucky you for finding another chance at love. Go for it. You can have both - bloke and horse. Good luck, hope it works out
 
spring - its not just 1 but 3 or 4 ( same group though)- but thank you. came home tonight to txt " so not seen you at yard this week end with him?" and just went into tears. my lass will never ever sufffer - after walking out womens refugee i went straight to her and cried into her neck - says all. but thank you xx

jeeves thank you xx
 
Tell them to go and get a life and stay out of yours. Your passionate about your horse and its being cared for.Well done on finding love again.

People that are b****y make me soooooo mad. IGNORE THEM,their only jelious.
 
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