Sallyfinn
Well-Known Member
As many of you so kindly offered advice on my previous thread I thought I would post a little update today.
The mare and I have been getting on better and better recently and I was feeling very positive until.....
I was informed last week by a local instructor that the "friend" who sold me the mare had moved her on as she couldn't ride her. She is a much better rider than me and events. Mare had apparently also been to 4 different professionals for reschooling with little success.The local instructor advised me to "sell her before she kills you, she's too sharp and belongs in the hands of a professional".
I was crushed, no one is more honest about their ability than me, and I was very open about what I was looking for, something to teach nervous novice me to do something other than hunt my cob.
Sadly now I am attached to her, and she to me. We always come home from dressage with a ribbon and today we managed some tiny jumps in my lesson.
My regular instructor thinks the mare is happy with me and we will be fine together. She thinks the mare was just very anxious and stressy in a competitive home / professional yard and is really calm now. I desperately want to keep her, I think we are a good team. Am I being silly?
The mare and I have been getting on better and better recently and I was feeling very positive until.....
I was informed last week by a local instructor that the "friend" who sold me the mare had moved her on as she couldn't ride her. She is a much better rider than me and events. Mare had apparently also been to 4 different professionals for reschooling with little success.The local instructor advised me to "sell her before she kills you, she's too sharp and belongs in the hands of a professional".
I was crushed, no one is more honest about their ability than me, and I was very open about what I was looking for, something to teach nervous novice me to do something other than hunt my cob.
Sadly now I am attached to her, and she to me. We always come home from dressage with a ribbon and today we managed some tiny jumps in my lesson.
My regular instructor thinks the mare is happy with me and we will be fine together. She thinks the mare was just very anxious and stressy in a competitive home / professional yard and is really calm now. I desperately want to keep her, I think we are a good team. Am I being silly?