tootsietoo
Well-Known Member
I've got two daughters, aged 7 & 8. When they were born, I promised I wouldn't get ponies until they were at least 7 and could appreciate it a bit. But whaddya know, a friend offered us a Shetland when the older child was 2, and it's been a slippery slope ever since! They've now got two fabulous ponies, and they do lots of PC and hunting. They are great, they ride well, and they love the hunting - we've been out nearly every week this season. And I am so delighted to be able to share my passion with them. But it's is such hard work for me getting all three of us out every Saturday and of course they take it for granted - how could they not, they've never known any different! Whilst I show them how to do everything, day to day they don't do anything with the horses - they haven't been physically capable of doing much, they just get on and ride! I know that the 8 year old now is probably able to help me, and I have made it clear to her that next season she needs to be out mucking out with me in the morning and cleaning her tack whenever she goes to PC, hunting etc. But I am really worried that they won't want to do the work and that they'll choose not to ride rather than ride and do the work! I know that it is the only way, and that I will be doing them no favours by being their horsey slave for years and years, but it is going to be a hard transition. I would really like to hear other people's stories about how much horsey work their children do and how you manage the discussions about who does what!