Perspective on fostering & illness

fiwen30

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Not quite sure what to title this, but looking for some input from other more experienced owners.

After losing their own greyhound, my pals signed up to foster ex-racers. They got a last minute call for a dog who had been let down for a home, and needed temporary housing - they were told 1 week, but they’ve now had him over 1 month. My friend says that the charity has done basically nothing to re-advertise him for rehoming, despite them saying that they don’t wish to adopt, and that they din’t know what the charity’s further plans for him are.

They had a pre-booked trip for a few days, and so the dog went elsewhere for a few days and was then returned to them. He’s had constant diarrhoea since then, and that was 2.5 weeks ago. My friends are exhausted, they say he needs to be taken out every couple of hours and all through the night, and they live in a big 2nd floor flat.

I don’t know the details about his feeding etc., but he’s kept in a consistent, calm routine, and there’s always someone at home with him due to WFH.

He was at the vets today who gave pain relief, and told them to take a poo sample ‘in a few days, if there’s no improvement’. Personally, I might’ve had him at the vets over a week ago, with poo sample in hand, but he’s not my dog. Except that he’s not my friend’s dog, either.

They care about him greatly, and want the best for him, but at what point should a rescue step in and bring a foster back into their care? At what point should vet visits, medications, and samples, fall under the responsibility of a dog’s owner - the charity?

I’m not sure what to say or advise her, expect to commiserate because a dog with constant runs is awful for everyone involved.
 
I was under the impression if you foster for a charity then they remain responsible for all costs, including vets, feed and meds etc.? The poor dog doesn't sound too well at all. Hard as it is I think they need to be having a serious chat with the rescue, requesting to return the dog into their care and withdrawing any further help. There are so many rescues out there that would be thrilled to find another foster home to help out and surely wouldn't be quite so remiss in looking after both the dogs in their care and fosterers too, as this one appears to be?
 
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I was under the impression if you foster for a charity then they remain responsible for all costs, including vets, feed and meds etc.? The poor dog doesn't sound too well at all. Hard as it is I think they need to be having a serious chat with the rescue, requesting to return the dog into their care and withdrawing any further help. There are so many rescues out there that would be thrilled to find another foster home to help out and surely wouldn't be quite so remiss in looking after both the dogs in their care and fosterers too, as this one appears to be?

Thank you Mrs J, that had been my thoughts too.

Not sure who is paying for the food & treatments, but at the end of the day it’s my friends who are transporting and giving their time to the appointments, say nothing of multiple garden trips during the night.

It must be difficult to have grown fond of a foster, and to obviously want the best for them, but also to know that they’re not actually yours and that ultimately their welfare is the responsibility of the charity. I presume, anyway.
 
Is it definitely a charity they are fostering from?

Only I have never heard of all costs not being covered.

Yeah it’s a registered charity, so I do assume that the vet costs and things are covered, but I’m just not sure where the physical responsibility of a foster home extends to. Like, how sick of a dog are you expected to look after?
 
Have you looked the charity up online? Do they look legit?

Have they discussed the dog being 'poorly' and the vet visit?

Charity is legit, they’ve a registration number and are long standing. Not sure of the conversations between parties around the illness, but I know my friend was already annoyed that they hadn’t been advertising the dog for adoption yet, when theirs was only meant to be a temporary roof.

I see he’s on their website now, but I don’t know what the assumption is for a fosterer - is it usual for a sick animal to not go back to the care of the charity? I would’ve thought they would want to take control of his treatment at least.
 
I don't think it's unreasonable for the charity to assume the fosterers are happy to keep the dog during its illness.

I think that's just part and parcel of taking on foster dogs. I expect lots have periods of illness, what with the stress and anxiety of adapting to living in a home etc.

That said, if your friends feel like it isn't working and isn't something they can sustain, then they should say so and hand the dog back.
 
I can only tell you how the charity I fostered for operated. They covered all vet fees but once I accepted a foster dog, I became responsible for training him and looking after him no matter what. I had one pup who turned out to have giardia and I only let her go to a permanent home when she was well again. Some were rehomed in a few weeks, others stayed up to a year. The charity would probably not have anywhere to put the dog at short notice anyway and moving him to a strange place now could slow his recovery. I am sorry but that is what fostering entails. Thry can ask to return the dog but they may have to wait for another fosterer to be free.
 
Most charities that use foster carers do so because they don’t have their own kennels. Are you sure about the conversation between your friends and the charity? Far too many people want to get involved to ‘help’ but don’t have all the facts.
If you are a foster carer for a registered charity then it’s usual for the charity to meet all the vets fees and pay for food and travel expenses if the volunteer requests them. Most have closed sites where the volunteers can find the correct forms. If your friends are unable to continue caring for the dog they need to be very clear that they can no longer do so. If there isn’t another person able to foster the default position would be for the charity to pay for a kennel space which isn’t usually in the dogs best interests. Normally foster carers are home checked, interviewed and receive an information pack. Are you sure it’s your responsibility to get involved?
 
If at all possible, nobody would want to take a dog with an illness into kennels (assuming the charity has them?), especially undiagnosed at this point because it's both a big biosecurity hazard and the change in home/people would be really stressful for the dog. The charity as bill payer are in control of vet treatment but the normal expectation is that the fosters provide the care especially when extra care is required. It's what you'd do with your own dog.

IME, fostering can be both a blessing and a curse - you get to help dogs, learn lots while doing so, even try before you buy ;) all without financial/longterm responsibility but I really struggle with the lack of control. I used to do palliative fostering for dogs that couldn't be rehomed due to age/health which could be very sad but I knew I had them until the end (which was always too soon) Now I do very short term, either in emergency or for assessment because I don't have the time or energy for new home meets and if they stay too long (more than a week!) I'm too liable to keep them...I can't afford a divorce.

ETA If a fosterer requests help with taking a dog to the vets etc, we will always try and find someone to support with or do the trip if at all possible or any other help that can be given. Recently I was visiting a foster home twice daily to tablet a reluctant dog :) Not as bad as it sounds, the fosterers were a bit creaky, struggled with getting on and off the floor, they live round the corner and had really good biscuits so although it's a rescue that I've never had anything to do with, it was no big deal when word went out.
 
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