silkrider
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I've been riding for 3 years now, nearly every day. But can't feel stable doing rising trot. My legs swing a foot out in front of me on the rise. Makes me feel very unstable and really screws up the efforts i'm putting into learning to ride my horse forward and on the bit. I'm in a dressage saddle and the stirrup bars are correctly positioned. I've tried everything. I know you are supposed to let the horse push you out of saddle. I try this but my leg still goes flying even though i don't think i'm putting that much weight in my stirrups. But maybe i am as i have years of bad muscle memory of pushing my self up with the stirrups? I know there is still some extra weight going into my stirrups as i try to just allow the horse to push me forward from my calves stretching down. I don't see how to make it any less though.
I'm wondering if my legs are just too tight because i can't really wrap my lower leg around the horses barrel to help and keep my leg stable. I am 40 years old and am wondering if my legs (IT Bands and hamstrings) are just too tight, because i can't get my lower leg to stay around the horse even at a walk. I can just barely wrap my calf on the horse but it is such a strain to get it there that there is no power left with it to hold on with enough force to really keep it still.
Do your calves need to be wrapped around the horse in order to help keep the leg still even when you are doing everything else correctly? If so, then maybe that is part of my problem.
I can't believe it can be this hard even with the fact i'm starting to ride at 40 and am a man (though i don't see many others attempting that!).
I've tried posting without stirrups, but i can't do that at all. So maybe that is telling. I'm so bad i really can't practice on my horse because he gets mad. Only thing i can think of is to get my wife to lunge me around on him.
I just don't know what to do and its driving me crazy. I try to work on this 40 minutes a day, but i really get no where. I did a lunge lesson and that seemed to help me really work on letting the horse push me up, but my legs never felt that stable. And my teacher can only come every 2 weeks. I feel like i need lunge lessons 3 hours a day for about 10 days in row to get this.
I feel like until i get a stronger position attempting to learn dressage and getting my horse to go nicely will be impossible. And after 3 years of trying with many different instructors i still can't quite get it.
I'm wondering if my legs are just too tight because i can't really wrap my lower leg around the horses barrel to help and keep my leg stable. I am 40 years old and am wondering if my legs (IT Bands and hamstrings) are just too tight, because i can't get my lower leg to stay around the horse even at a walk. I can just barely wrap my calf on the horse but it is such a strain to get it there that there is no power left with it to hold on with enough force to really keep it still.
Do your calves need to be wrapped around the horse in order to help keep the leg still even when you are doing everything else correctly? If so, then maybe that is part of my problem.
I can't believe it can be this hard even with the fact i'm starting to ride at 40 and am a man (though i don't see many others attempting that!).
I've tried posting without stirrups, but i can't do that at all. So maybe that is telling. I'm so bad i really can't practice on my horse because he gets mad. Only thing i can think of is to get my wife to lunge me around on him.
I just don't know what to do and its driving me crazy. I try to work on this 40 minutes a day, but i really get no where. I did a lunge lesson and that seemed to help me really work on letting the horse push me up, but my legs never felt that stable. And my teacher can only come every 2 weeks. I feel like i need lunge lessons 3 hours a day for about 10 days in row to get this.
I feel like until i get a stronger position attempting to learn dressage and getting my horse to go nicely will be impossible. And after 3 years of trying with many different instructors i still can't quite get it.