tarzipan06
Well-Known Member
Hya
Sorry to bleat on but I would like some tactful advise (as opposed to OH's not too diplomatic.
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My friend is going to rent the field I used to rent, she is behaving quite demanding wanting the field from the owners for next to nothing, (I had an arrangment as they were friends of mine and I taught their kids how to ride) and thinking that she has automatic right to my electric fencing. I was planning on selling my fencing on e-bay, as when I moved in I spent over 300 squid setting up. I said she could borrow it ... but I do really want it back.
She has also been hassling the livery owners of my yard (over the road) to buy her feed, bedding etc from then and use their facilities - they are not amused. I am a little embarrassed by her behaviour - I have previously got on really well (although she is a little on the pushy side) - this is her first time as an owner so I expect she is really excited. How can I tactfully put it to her that I do what the fencing back without being rude?
Am I making a fuss, and should I just let her have it.
Sorry to bleat on but I would like some tactful advise (as opposed to OH's not too diplomatic.
My friend is going to rent the field I used to rent, she is behaving quite demanding wanting the field from the owners for next to nothing, (I had an arrangment as they were friends of mine and I taught their kids how to ride) and thinking that she has automatic right to my electric fencing. I was planning on selling my fencing on e-bay, as when I moved in I spent over 300 squid setting up. I said she could borrow it ... but I do really want it back.
She has also been hassling the livery owners of my yard (over the road) to buy her feed, bedding etc from then and use their facilities - they are not amused. I am a little embarrassed by her behaviour - I have previously got on really well (although she is a little on the pushy side) - this is her first time as an owner so I expect she is really excited. How can I tactfully put it to her that I do what the fencing back without being rude?