Reasons for horse having a fatal stroke - devastated

barneyandem

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Hi everyone,
I'm heartbroken to say that I lost my beautiful Barney on Sunday and I would really appreciate any advice or insight as to what may have happened and I am devastated and so confused as to what has happened.
I've had him since I was 11 and i'm now 28. He would be 27 this year and never had a days sick in the 18 years I had him.
Saturday - he was 100% happy, healthy, normal. No unusual signs or off days in the months previous. Sunday - I randomly got to the yard extra early because of the frost (so I could walk my dog up there as the ground would be hard - some parts are very muddy) and I found Barney in a bush. At first I thought he was tangled but as I tore off the branches around him, the bush was actually supporting him. He was foaming at the mouth and had his head low. I instantly knew something was wrong and called the vet - because it was a Sunday and emergency call out, she was 40 mins away. I managed to get him up to the yard (50metres took 10mins) he was very un-co-ordinated and every step was wobbly with him almost going down a few times. His head was low and still foam coming out of his mouth. He made the odd whinny which broke my heart and made me hope he was trying to hang on. Got him on the yard and he propped himself up against the wall, within 10 mins he started to go down in a horrible, un natural way. as soon as the vet got there she sedated him and then advised that he may have had a stroke and was having a fit or had extreme colic (I find it hard to believe he had colic - he had no mud from rolling and never had it in his life). She then pretty much advised to put him down as he was already going. I begged her to try anything and she said there was nothing that could be done. I had to make the decision in what felt like seconds to put the love of my life down.

I am just so devastated - he was my life and he had been everywhere with me - uni etc. I just cant understand how a healthy horse with no symptoms can just go so quickly. He was 26 - 27 this year and so I know age was against him but he was very healthy and looked like a horse half his age.If anyone has any experience of this please can you let me know as I am feeling like this is the most rare freak unfair occasion.
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Emily
 

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I'm so sorry *hug*

There is no real reason in horses, especially for a horse how had a long and healthy innings as Barney. I understand why you need a reason, but I just don't think this time there is one :(

Concentrate on the good times and the memories xx
 

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So sorry to read this.

It sounds like you totally adored your horse and he had a fantastic life with you.

I think unfortunately these things happen that are out of our control... It doesn't make it any easier though.

I'm really sorry for your loss x
 

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Oh dear, what a shock for you. Like us, age takes no prisoners and you must try to remember the good times and accept that you gave him the best home possible.

My 28 year old cob had a serious of mini strokes a few years ago. I found him with his bottom lip split and it seemed that he had toppled over and hit his face on the wall. We tried to help him for five days but he worsened and kindness dictated the next step.

Take care of yourself.
 

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How sad, but I'm afraid that just like human strokes, animal ones can occur with no warning at all. Take heart from the fact that he WAS a happy healthy horse right up to the end and that his passing was quick and that you were there with him.
 

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You must still be in shock along with your grief, and I am so sorry that your happy life together with your horse ended so. It is awful not to know why a loved horse dies ( I do understand as this has happened to me); sadly even a post mortem might not have given you an explanation. You will have to try to take comfort from knowing that you did the very best and most courageous thing for him, and he had a happy life with you. For humans, in whom a lot of research has been done, there are 5 reasons for strokes and also a sixth - the silent stroke where no apparent reason ( or signs before hand) can be found. A stroke is a catastrophic thing and causes damage to many parts of the body especially the brain. Rest assured that you did the only and right thing for your horse.
 

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So very sorry for your loss, I've seen 1 pony go down with a stroke, he was fine when his headcoller went on, 2mins down the road he collapsed, we got him back up, went another 30ft, down he went again. It was all very sudden, no warning signs at all.

He lived a few months after this, but to me (he wasn't mine) it didn't seem like he had very much quality of life.
 

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So sorry for your loss. As the owner of an oldie who colicked for the first time in 13 yesrs of ownership last friday you have my utmost sympathies, hes healthy and acts like a horse half his age and i had vision of having to make a decision last week. Luckily for me he was fine due to a speedy vet and him being really healthy.

Strokes are like heartattacks you just cant predict or plan for them. Take solace in the way you were with him and did the best for him and looked after and showered love and affection on him for all those years. He would have known mum was there for him and would have went peacefully with your scent in his nostrils.

*hugs* xxx
 

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I'm so sorry.

My best friend lost her horse of a lifetime to a stroke under very similar circumstances. She was also a similar age and had always had a healthy life. I think there are no answers; it's something that can happen at any time. If it was like my friend's horse, it was very quick in the grand scheme of things. You made the right decision. I'm glad you had each other for all those years, and that you were there at the end for his sake. Thinking of you x
 
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