Red and anxiety

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Red’s anxiety has lessened continually since she came here.
She does, though, panic about doors and if you are opening or closing one she bolts blindly through it. But a few weeks ago she was in the feed room, door open, and I opened the door next to it. She bolted and ran into the bottom corner of the door I was opening. It must have hurt, although she screams at the slightest thing she took to her bed for the rest of the day. There was no visible injury.
Since then she is constantly panting noisily at me. She won’t lie in the garden with the others, but slinks back to her kennel. She still comes on walks, trains, and in most ways is just the same but it’s very wearing (for me, let alone her).
I have been away for a couple of days and my mum stayed here and dog sat. Red went back to entirely herself, relaxed, lay in the garden etc.
So does she think I hurt her and thinks I’m going to do it again? She’s really miserable with me.
I’ve tried reassuring but I mainly ignore it.
Any suggestions?
 
Sounds like she's connected youwith the incident, I think I would stop making any issue or reassuring her if that seems to make her worse and just go out you and her and try to rebuild the bond and trust again, is she playful at all? some silly games may help.
 
If she likes treats, go from there, preferably where it happened.

Mitch sulks when told off and needs immediate reassurance, he’s a sensitive boy.
 
Where it happened is where her food is made and stored and she is absolutely fine around there. It’s bizarrely only when I’m in the garden, we have never had any incidents in the garden 🤷‍♀️
 
Did you go into the garden afterwards? She maybe didn't get sore until later/has associated you with the pain if there is any/the scare, rather than the room or the door.
I know of dogs that are scared of wellies and bins because they were corrected for fixating on a pet rabbit/chasing lorries but that's not what they were looking at or passing when they received the correction...they can make links between the strangest things.
 
Did you go into the garden afterwards? She maybe didn't get sore until later/has associated you with the pain if there is any/the scare, rather than the room or the door.
I know of dogs that are scared of wellies and bins because they were corrected for fixating on a pet rabbit/chasing lorries but that's not what they were looking at or passing when they received the correction...they can make links between the strangest things.
Do you know, I probably did. Ok then how do I undo this connection? 🤷‍♀️🙂
 
Feed her in the garden? Treats or bones in the garden? Play/training/whatever floats her boat in the garden?
 
She did come and sit with me now for a bit, then the summer house door rattled and she was off like a shot.
 
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