RIP Ted, one year on

superted1989

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Today is the year anniversary of losing my horse of a lifetime, Ted (Penpontbren Superted).
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He had been 'rescued' by a friend of a friend, he was booked in the be PTS as the owners were moving abroad within days and had been unable to sell him. The 'rescuers' daughter said she would take him, then dropped him off at her mother's as a companion! Ted was the fattest horse I have ever seen, he looked like a sausage about to burst, and also came across as dull and depressed :(
He was too 'big' to be a companion and was offered to me. At 17, it was thought he would be able to come back into light work, perfect for me. Lots of careful dieting, and bonding followed. Farrier reckoned he'd had 'low grade' laminitus for years and vet diagnosed false ringbone in front but Ted was a happy chap and managed very light work until he was 20 and I fully retired him.
He was right character, a proper 'bed head' and only liked to be out when the weather was suitably ambient (we had many a 'conversation' in the stable doorway that being out was far, far better than being in). He was right down the bottom of the pecking order in the field and had few social skills with horses as he'd spent most of his youth as a serving stallion and kept solitary (apart from his neck you would never had guessed he was a stallion until his teens). Easter 2010 brought Basil to the yard, another who had spent his youth as a stallion, but was aggressive in company. We tried him and Ted together and they instantly became best buddies, the first time ever that Basil had been able to have turnout company.
Then, last summer, Ted started to show signs of being very uncomfortable in the hock area. He wouldn't load to travel to horsepital (had a travelling accident) but the vet said, with his age and slight unsoundness in front, even with a diagnosis, palliative care would be his only real option. Poor Ted, towards the end, could only put his head down to eat and drink on 5 bute a day. I hate to see animals suffer, so the decision was made.
Ted is buried in the spot in the field, where he and Basil used to stand together, at the top of the hill where they could see the whole yard. I miss him every day.
 
Having just read this I can't imagine not having my special boy with me, so I completely sympathise with you - it must be heart wrenching to loose one so dear. At least he had happy retirement years with you. Well done for being his special person and providing him with the love and care he needed :)
 
Hugs OP... It was 9 months yesterday since I lost Starla. I still cry for her most days and get childishly emotional at times. I've lost animals before, but there's always that special one, that makes you feel like life just will never be the same. X
 
Thank you for your kind words.
I have Markie to pamper now, although he will never be Ted. Apart from a short break having children, I've had horses all my life (sadly, I'm no longer in the flush of youth!) but Ted is the only one that I could truly say was 'mine'. Most horses I know aren't that bothered about any particular human feeding them, bringing in/turning out etc, etc (although they all recognise their owners, I'm convinced) but Ted would walk past a bucket of food in the field, held by people he knew, to come to greet me (I had to prove it to my kids once!).
Sadly, my elderly dog had to have a routine drug assessment vet visit today and we've been told that there is nothing more that can be done for her as she has detriorated in the last fortnight. Just couldn't face having her PTS today, so, she has a carrier bag full of strong drugs and will go for her long walkies after bank holiday. She's a 14 year old Staffie who is totally in charge of our household :(
 
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