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Has anyone read it in this weeks Horse and Hound?
My jaw actually dropped.
I mean, who am I to judge, it's up to other people what they do etc but I can't help having an opinion. I can't actually believe some of the stuff I read.

What are people's opinions? There was a woman who spent £10,000 and remortgaged her house to keep her horse alive as a paddock ornament, and walked out of her job so she could drive a 3 hour round trip each day to visit him in vet hospital.
A woman who quite her job and worked as an exotic dancer so she could but a 2yo horse which was out of her price range, and beyond her means to keep along alongside the 2 she already had. The horse is now 7 and has still done nothing.
A woman who made herself homeless to keep her 4yo.

I don't mean for this post to sound bitchy, I know it's judgemental of me but like I say I can't help having an opinion. What do others think?

Don't get me wrong, I love my horses, but I certainly wouldn't put them above having enough money to live, having a place to live, or my family. To me, that's just madness.

Or am I wrong??
 
No. I spent more than I should have trying to fix the unfixable, and it came out the same anyway, but with added stress and misery for both me and the horse.

I wouldn't do it again.

The above examples, suppose they can do as they like. I don't know their circumstances, if they were single and child-free fair enough, it's when it negatively impacts on a partner, a family, and the family home, I think that's wrong to do.
 
No. I spent more than I should have trying to fix the unfixable, and it came out the same anyway, but with added stress and misery for both me and the horse.

I wouldn't do it again.

The above examples, suppose they can do as they like. I don't know their circumstances, if they were single and child-free fair enough, it's when it negatively impacts on a partner, a family, and the family home, I think that's wrong to do.

Agree. I've done it before, kept a horse going longer than I should and wasted a whole lot of money before the inevitable end. I would NOT (and have not) go through it again.
At the time I was younger and single.
But lots of the people you see carrying on like this have families.
I don't know how people can think 'oh I have 2 horses but I want another. Can't afford to keep or buy it but hey ho!'
 
In many cases this is not in the horses best interests. Its like the so called horse rescue centres who then need rescuing themselves. I can appreciate someone trying to afford to pay for treatment for a horse they already own and love, but to buy more when you can't afford them is irresponsible.
 
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