Sorry to bother you, but I am in need of a little bit of advise. We are a very small yard only 6 of us, and the latest girl who joined about a year ago has just been told that her partner has only months to live. They have been together for 19 years but never got married, and now to make things easier they are getting married in a registry office very small no fuss, but the problem we face or I face is what to do should I get them a card or not. My thinking was perhaps a blank card where I can write a few words, just thought a wedding day card wishing them all the best in their lives together long and happy etc, is not really the right thing to do,so what would you do in this situation. Sorry to ask but just to get other peoples views who are not involved would give me an idea if I am doing the right thing and if not what would be the best thing to do for them, many thanks for taking the time to read.