Sad, Then Upset, Then Happy

Tia

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Yesterday was a very up and down kind of a day for me. One of my horses that I have owned for 3 years was sold a few weeks ago and the new owner came to collect her yesterday. I thought the buyer was the best person for her and I thought he was genuine ... and then they took her away. I wasn't actually prepared for missing her, or even bothering that much as I am usually fine when my horses go, but then I always normally deliver them to their new homes. This is the first time I have had a horse of mine collected and I took the buyer on trust that he was as he claimed.

Anyhow as the afternoon went on, I was watching her herd and noticed just how terribly down in the dumps they were
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. This herd has remained intact for about 2 years now and I was surprised at how much of a void it would leave for the rest of them. Glad to say, they still seem down today, but brighter than they were yesterday.

As the day went on yesterday, I kept over-analysing things and got to the stage that I seriously wondered if I had done the right thing by her
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. Now I have NEVER had these feelings before with a horse, so I think that is why it took me aback.

Later in the afternoon I was given some wonderful news about some land we had been looking at, so was very happy to hear that info.

Last night, I had a knock on my door and was given some news which I was very uncomfortable with. As my husband is now in England for a couple of months, I started to really worry over this horrible news. Hardly slept a wink, woke up this morning with a real downer, spoke to my husband and finally started feeling a little better about it all. An HHO forum member called at the same time and almost made me cry because of her absolute and genuine kind offer - thank you so very very much; you know who you are
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THEN after all this ... the phone goes again. It was the buyer of my horse! Calling to let me know that she settled in perfectly and has already made friends with all the other horses ... and what food do I feed her as he wants to keep her on the same as she looks so wonderful
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. He's in love with her (so he says) and I could tell he sounded totally taken with her, so boy am I a very happy camper right now.

No real reason for this post, just wanted to say, when you start to become concerned about mankind, you are quickly brought back into touch that most people are good! Most people have kind hearts and when they share this with you, it repairs any damage.
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Yes it is when you are really down that having someone pick you up again is so appreciated. As you said, most people are decent when it comes down to it.

I am sure horse will settle in well - the fact that he rang and asked what diet etc for her is a very good sign that she will be much loved.

At least you didn't have to fill in a 5 page questionnaire that I made Farra's owner do so I knew as much as was reasonably possible to know about her when I bought her home, I did the same with Chancer too - no doubt anyone reading this will run a mile if I ever offer to buy a horse from them.
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Glad to hear this Tia, I missed your "upset" post but I was worrying about you today (isn't the internet an odd thing), I am pleased you are feeling more positive!
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Oh I am glad your post had a happy end, I was reading it thinking 'Poor Tia, please let those new owners be nice'. Pheew

I heard from the buyer of my little horse today too and she says she loves the little mare to bits. She's been teach the her to jump and it turns out she loves it (actually that shouldnt surprise me given how the little git could jump and electric fence from a standstill, but hey ho!
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Thank you everyone for your kind thoughts. It isn't a happy ending yet though, well it is for the horse, but I have another week and a half to worry over my news. I'm in a brighter frame of mind though, thanks once again to HHOer coming to the rescue for a second time today
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, and to you guys for thinking of me. This isn't me wallowing or anything self centred, this is pretty deep cr4p
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. Sorry, I just don't want to say too much on here.

Yes though, very glad my horsey has settled in. He did know what I fed her, just didn't know the ratio of my mix for it
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. Lovely to hear your little mare is doing great too Oldy
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. Gives you that warm fuzzy feeling doesn't it?

It's so odd for me to do this as this guy has been up to see her all the time since leaving the deposit, and he seems really gentle and an awfully pleasant person - I can only assume something was preying on my mind at the time - maybe I had a premonition that Mr Policeman was going to visit me later on that day
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Life can be such a rollercoaster ride, and you have just had some of he tight twists. I hope that your news turns out to be nothing to worry about and that you and your OH will soon be reunited, with nothing to worry about.
You are a very strong person Tia, and I am pleased you have some very good friends.
 
Meant to say I know the horse sale was only part of your post. I really hope the other problem resolves ok too
 
Hope you are ok, Tia.

How lovely to hear from the new owner
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Which reminds me, I need to write to my boy's old owner to tell her how we are getting on. I have had him for over a year now, but I still bombard her with photos!

Hugs!

Isabelle
 
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Thanks you guys
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, and thank you to everyone who PMd me too, very kind of you all. I'm not a woose or anything, just this subpoena has knocked me off my stride a little and I think I am imagining bigger consequences of this than there really may be.

I've just been out playing ponies and feel so much more pragmatic now
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. I moved the herd leader mare out of that field and put her in with the new horse who came up from the States a few days ago, so that has taken her mind off her second-in-command girl not being here anymore.
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Will be playing a bit more musical-horses tomorrow, so by the end of the weekend, they won't be missing her so much.
 
Pleased to hear your day ended on a good note, even though it had been a rollercoaster.

I'm having a sad day here, so totally understand those feelings.
 
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