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PapaverFollis

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I would like to write a letter back to my self of twelve years ago and say "no, do not get a second puppy within two years of getting the first".

About 9 months ago we had the two older boys into the vets one after each other. The Sprollie had a breathing issue, he was xrayed and examined under sedation and given Loxicom, the verdict was some kind of infection or kennel cough. So that seemed OK. The Sprocker went in and was diagnosed with Stage 2 chronic kidney disease. Vet assured us that with the special diet he could go on for a long while especially as his clinical presentation was much better than his test results. That was not to be and we lost him in November. He was thirteen and half and it fair broke my heart, he deteriorated very suddenly one day which was not what the vet had told us to expect... I suppose it was an uncommon thing, but that's by the by.

But since we lost Oscar, Hugo's breathing has gradually deteriorated again. It is less noisy this time but more strained, not all the time you understand... just episodes. We've been to the vets today and the verdict is laryngeal paralysis. At the moment it is OK, when he's not wearing a collar or at all stressed or excited there is no noise. Again the vet said the prognosis is for a slow deterioration but at his age it's likely that something else will get him first. Maybe because of our recent experience with Oscar I am not at all optimistic, I feel like we'll end up with a fringe case rapid deterioration and I'm just dreading going through losing another dog again so soon. We can only wait and see though.

It's just sad.

We've got some calming tablets from the vet to try as the breathing only gets really bad when he's stressed or excited. I'm not sure they'll work though. He's well and happy in himself.

I don't know if I'm asking any questions here. I think I'm just venting.

All other animals (Horses, Henry, cat) and humans are currently fine at least!
 

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Very sorry to hear this they fill our hearts with joy and sadness. Luckily more joy than sadness.
Sounds like you are doing everything needed for him . Hope the younger member of the family keeps you entertained and busy.
 

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I'm sorry you lost Oscar and that Hugo is not doing so good right now. I hope Hugo will rally round and you can have a few more happy years together.
I'm glad everyone else is currently fine. (Long may that last!)

However, closeness in age isn't necessarily an indicator of how far apart you will lose them. As a kind of counter example, as a child we had an oops litter of three puppies. Sadly one didn't make it, but we kept the other two. 11 years later, one of them went down hill rapidly and had to be PTS. We were convinced that this would finish off her sister who had lived with her all her life, but no, the sister was fine and lived another contented 3 years after that.
 

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I'm so sorry for your loss of Oscar. Poor Hugo, loss of their life partners can be hard for them. It's so hard.

We have lost two in two years... one was 11, the other 4. I was always of the opinion of spreading your losses, and advised my sister against getting two within two years, but since losing the 4 year old we have had to get a second puppy to go with the one that we got to go with the 4 year old when the 11 year old went. So only 9 months age gap. After our recent experience, I felt nothing was certain if you could lose a 4 year old and so it would be ok. But I'm sure that in x years time I'll feel like you do now and wish we'd been able to spread them out. I can only hope it is in 12 years time like you.

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I'm sorry for your loss. Fingers crossed that the vet's prognosis is correct this time.
My first 'independent' dogs after I left home were a pair of brown Lab litter sisters. One was pts aged 18 months with Non-Hodgekins lymphoma, the other, despite epilepsy diagnosed just after we lost her sister, lived to be almost 15, at the time the longest lived Lab our family had had. The trouble is that when you get them you have no idea how long they will be with you.
 
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Thanks everyone. There was a spaniel in the vets waiting room that was such the spitting image of Oscar that she could genuinely have been a litter sister... I was welling up just looking at her. I think that, as much as the actual issue with Hugo, has thrown me for hoop. I miss him so much.

I absolutely get that there's no guarantees, maybe I'd just tell my past self to have a think about the probabilities. But then if she read and took on board my letter from the future... we might not have got ourselves a Hugo and that idea is too dreadful altogether.

Here's my monochrome boys on their last walk together. 💔 Oscar was swimming right up to the end!
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(Hugo has been wearing just a harness, with ID attached, since his first issue 9 months ago as even then we noticed the collar made it worse... I've only just found out that, according to the letter of the law, this is illegal! 😱)
 

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(Hugo has been wearing just a harness, with ID attached, since his first issue 9 months ago as even then we noticed the collar made it worse... I've only just found out that, according to the letter of the law, this is illegal! 😱)
If any one asks, it's a "ultra secure collar with body attachment".
 

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(Hugo has been wearing just a harness, with ID attached, since his first issue 9 months ago as even then we noticed the collar made it worse... I've only just found out that, according to the letter of the law, this is illegal! 😱)
I wouldn't worry about it, I see many, many dogs in this set up. The XL that was part of a news programme recently had a harness and muzzle, no collar. Makes me furious as a harness on a big strong dog is useless unless backed up by a collar and lead.
 
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