Eventer146
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Hi All,
Let me preface this with some background. I'm 18 and headed to college in the fall. I chose a college that is only an hour and a half away since I'm leaving behind a dearly beloved senior horse. I'll be studying natural horsemanship and they require us to bring a horse. My senior horse (Pokey) ended up getting injured a year or so back and now can't do hard work 5 days a week, like the college wants of us. So, that along with my desire to keep eventing, led me to look for a new horse. I live in a very western part of the states. If it ain't a Quarter Horse, then it's not worth your time mentality. I found one out of state that was in my price range and sold by a stable that dealt in training and selling jumping horses. The owner seemed nice, got him vetted, he passed, so we skipped XRays. I bought him and shipped him here myself so I figured if the vet check came back clean, I could save some money there.
He gets here, and immediately my joy turns to fear. The owner said she bought him to be her eventing horse but she got busy and had to turn him out for a few months. She didn't want him anymore so she was selling him. She claimed he was perfect on the ground and I'd have no trouble riding him. Well, this horse didn't get the memo. As soon as he gets off the trailer he's all spook and lightning. I'd never handled a horse this large and this hot before. Leading him from his stall to the field everyday scared me so much I had my dad lead him. He'd rear, spook, race forward, knock me over. Any try to correct him sent his head up. Eventually I learned to handle his antics and started riding him. He was perfect to saddle and lazy even in the round pen. In the arena we had a few good weeks and even took him off property, but that's where the good behavior ended. Our first ride off property it took me half an hour to get in the saddle he was so hot. He pranced off the trailer, raced around the lunge, and spooked in the arena before finally settling down enough for me to ride. On the way home he panicked in the trailer and broke one of the windows. After that, he would not get in the trailer again. At one point he reared up and struck me in the shoulder while trying to load. In the arena, he developed a habit of spooking and spinning at random times. He could be walking totally normal and freak out on a dime. For months I was scared to even ride him. I would take him out, saddle him, lunge him, and call it a day. Only a few months ago did I try restarting him once I got over my fear somewhat. We did ground work and he got a little better. He didn't bolt off on the lunge, he lead from the field on a loose lead most days. I could walk, trot and canter in the round pen and was starting to trot and canter in the arena. Our work slowed down as I picked up a few odd jobs working horses for other people. When I got on to ride him around two weeks ago, he was perfect. Walk, trot, canter in the arena. No spook! I was on cloud nine. The next day he was acting fizzy so I walked him around the arena first. One corner in particular sent him into a panic no matter how many times I walked him by. He'd bolt past it and rear, ripping the rope out of my hand once. He acted the same way in the saddle. The next morning I went out bright and early to ride and noticed his back was sore. He kept dipping, even to a soft brush. Called the vet out, she says possible kissing spine and a weakness in the lumbar from his racing days. (He's a now 7yr old OTTB) Vet says he'll never event over novice without a lot of pain. Have the Chiro out and he calls bull. Says he can't feel anything and sees no reason why he can't event. We decide to get XRays to be sure.
While waiting for XRays, I practice him in the trailer, since in only a month I'll have to get him down to college. We ended up selling my old trailer and getting a new one with more space and it's brighter. After some work, he loads right up. Even loads himself. Only problem, he panics when I leave the trailer. Stood tied fine while I was there (and yes, he new he was tied) but pulled when I tried to leave. I had a quick release so I pulled him loose but was a split second too slow. Once he felt the rope stop him he bolted out and literally fell out of the trailer into a heap. I lost the rope and he bolted. I knew then that this isn't going to work. In months, maybe years I could get him trained up, but I don't have that time. I need him to be safe enough now, and a month isn't going to cut it. I posed him for sale that afternoon.
Sorry for my ramble, but I really needed to vent! I feel awful about selling him. He's a sweet horse, but just has so many issues I don't think he's cut out for college life right now. I feel like I'm a failure. Like I'm giving up on him. I've worked at a horse rescue the past 3 years and had to pass on a lovely Thoroughbred mare who had a rearing problem, so I feel like this is my second offense. I want to be a trainer once I graduate, and I can't even train this guy? I've worked a dozen other horses, gentled mustangs, ridden the spicy ones, but this guy I'm just out of luck. We're just not meshing. The days he's good make me want to keep him, but the bad days sends me online looking for a new horse. The bad outnumber the good it seems like. Now I can't even go look at him without crying.
Anyway, I could use some advice or even just your own experiences with horses like this. My trainer cannot ride other horses for legal reasons, so I HAVE to ride him if I want lessons. I can't trailer him so he's stuck at our place. I've asked older, more experienced riders to come ride him but they all bailed and told me to find a trainer. I'm just so fed up and frustrated I feel like never riding again.
Let me preface this with some background. I'm 18 and headed to college in the fall. I chose a college that is only an hour and a half away since I'm leaving behind a dearly beloved senior horse. I'll be studying natural horsemanship and they require us to bring a horse. My senior horse (Pokey) ended up getting injured a year or so back and now can't do hard work 5 days a week, like the college wants of us. So, that along with my desire to keep eventing, led me to look for a new horse. I live in a very western part of the states. If it ain't a Quarter Horse, then it's not worth your time mentality. I found one out of state that was in my price range and sold by a stable that dealt in training and selling jumping horses. The owner seemed nice, got him vetted, he passed, so we skipped XRays. I bought him and shipped him here myself so I figured if the vet check came back clean, I could save some money there.
He gets here, and immediately my joy turns to fear. The owner said she bought him to be her eventing horse but she got busy and had to turn him out for a few months. She didn't want him anymore so she was selling him. She claimed he was perfect on the ground and I'd have no trouble riding him. Well, this horse didn't get the memo. As soon as he gets off the trailer he's all spook and lightning. I'd never handled a horse this large and this hot before. Leading him from his stall to the field everyday scared me so much I had my dad lead him. He'd rear, spook, race forward, knock me over. Any try to correct him sent his head up. Eventually I learned to handle his antics and started riding him. He was perfect to saddle and lazy even in the round pen. In the arena we had a few good weeks and even took him off property, but that's where the good behavior ended. Our first ride off property it took me half an hour to get in the saddle he was so hot. He pranced off the trailer, raced around the lunge, and spooked in the arena before finally settling down enough for me to ride. On the way home he panicked in the trailer and broke one of the windows. After that, he would not get in the trailer again. At one point he reared up and struck me in the shoulder while trying to load. In the arena, he developed a habit of spooking and spinning at random times. He could be walking totally normal and freak out on a dime. For months I was scared to even ride him. I would take him out, saddle him, lunge him, and call it a day. Only a few months ago did I try restarting him once I got over my fear somewhat. We did ground work and he got a little better. He didn't bolt off on the lunge, he lead from the field on a loose lead most days. I could walk, trot and canter in the round pen and was starting to trot and canter in the arena. Our work slowed down as I picked up a few odd jobs working horses for other people. When I got on to ride him around two weeks ago, he was perfect. Walk, trot, canter in the arena. No spook! I was on cloud nine. The next day he was acting fizzy so I walked him around the arena first. One corner in particular sent him into a panic no matter how many times I walked him by. He'd bolt past it and rear, ripping the rope out of my hand once. He acted the same way in the saddle. The next morning I went out bright and early to ride and noticed his back was sore. He kept dipping, even to a soft brush. Called the vet out, she says possible kissing spine and a weakness in the lumbar from his racing days. (He's a now 7yr old OTTB) Vet says he'll never event over novice without a lot of pain. Have the Chiro out and he calls bull. Says he can't feel anything and sees no reason why he can't event. We decide to get XRays to be sure.
While waiting for XRays, I practice him in the trailer, since in only a month I'll have to get him down to college. We ended up selling my old trailer and getting a new one with more space and it's brighter. After some work, he loads right up. Even loads himself. Only problem, he panics when I leave the trailer. Stood tied fine while I was there (and yes, he new he was tied) but pulled when I tried to leave. I had a quick release so I pulled him loose but was a split second too slow. Once he felt the rope stop him he bolted out and literally fell out of the trailer into a heap. I lost the rope and he bolted. I knew then that this isn't going to work. In months, maybe years I could get him trained up, but I don't have that time. I need him to be safe enough now, and a month isn't going to cut it. I posed him for sale that afternoon.
Sorry for my ramble, but I really needed to vent! I feel awful about selling him. He's a sweet horse, but just has so many issues I don't think he's cut out for college life right now. I feel like I'm a failure. Like I'm giving up on him. I've worked at a horse rescue the past 3 years and had to pass on a lovely Thoroughbred mare who had a rearing problem, so I feel like this is my second offense. I want to be a trainer once I graduate, and I can't even train this guy? I've worked a dozen other horses, gentled mustangs, ridden the spicy ones, but this guy I'm just out of luck. We're just not meshing. The days he's good make me want to keep him, but the bad days sends me online looking for a new horse. The bad outnumber the good it seems like. Now I can't even go look at him without crying.
Anyway, I could use some advice or even just your own experiences with horses like this. My trainer cannot ride other horses for legal reasons, so I HAVE to ride him if I want lessons. I can't trailer him so he's stuck at our place. I've asked older, more experienced riders to come ride him but they all bailed and told me to find a trainer. I'm just so fed up and frustrated I feel like never riding again.